Shoshana Posted November 24, 2009 Posted November 24, 2009 Speak for yourself, cuz there's a lot more to it than that. There are millions of men out there who have it together and are happy and have problems finding mates. Well, of course there's more to it - but your chances increase exponentially if you're just plain happy with yourself, content with your life and joyful in your outlook. And as for the "millions" of men who have it together... hah, prove it! I've had to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince.
Midnight Rider Posted November 25, 2009 Posted November 25, 2009 And as for the "millions" of men who have it together... hah, prove it! I've had to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince. And are you happy and have it all 'together' ? Of the frogs that you kissed before you found the prince, what makes you think they didn't perceive you as a frog as well?
oldladynewbaby Posted November 30, 2009 Posted November 30, 2009 Hey there I have been separated for about 6 months and I excuse the expression- get hit on all the time- try grocery stores ( organic i think the girls are hotter lol) church or anything that you are good at and feel comfortable doing strike up a conversation- I have had a lot of guys hit on me its weird I have a baby in my forties and I still find that cute-- conversations--- a little flirting... dont be afraid to ask for a number! I personally do not want to date but so many girls/people are lonely dont be afraid keep trying Edison did And btw I am in Eastern Canada and those western girlies have the best skin and teeth so go for it!
Shoshana Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 And are you happy and have it all 'together' ? Of the frogs that you kissed before you found the prince, what makes you think they didn't perceive you as a frog as well? Actually, yes, I am very happy and do have it all together because I look after myself and my own happiness. If other men see me as a frog, it simply doesn't matter to me because I don't need a man's approval/acceptance/attraction to be happy. I've had lonely times, sure - but I don't go around pissing and moaning about it. I make up my mind to be happy and take care of me, and the rest follows. The OP wants to know what makes a man attractive, and I gave my answer from my point of view. It's pointless to engage debate on this any further because we clearly subscribe to two different philosophies and approaches - hope yours works out for you. Mine works for me.
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