Dented1Heart Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. We split up for 6 months during this time. Before we split up everything was perfect, he would stay round mine and i round his, we enjoyed each others company and i loved being with him. We split up due to stupid arguments but still remained friends...during this time we both saw other people. When my boyfriend found out that i had seen another boy during this time he kicked off. I then found out he had started smoking a lot of weed and he had changed. But still we got back together and everything was perfect for about 2 months. After this time he started to make excuses not to see me often and soon we hardly ever spoke on the phone. This has been going on for several months..i love him so much and i never want to lose him but i feel like i am. He will only see me when he wants to, when i need him he is never there for me but i am always there for him. He never listens to my problems and has an anger problem which means i always have to be careful of what i say to him...i know the simplest answer would be to leave him or tell him how i feel but i cant do any of those things as he just shrugs it off!!!!! I feel like im going crazy!
littlewhiterose Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I know that it's going to be really hard to do but it sounds like it'd be in your best interest to let him go.
conehead Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Dump him before he dumps you. Will save you alot of heartache. Actually to be honest. Just sit him down and tell him you want to have a serious discussion. Then let him know how you feel. If he brushes you off, let him know how you feel when he does that. If he ignores you, then yes please let him go.
Soul Bear Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Things are never the same the second time round.............connections gone.
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