lonelypiscesguy Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I had asked a LS member about this before (Thank you SO very much, and you know who you are!), but the day after my exes birthday, I got a "Resticted" call. I answered, and said "Hello?" a few times, then listened for background noise. Whoever it was hung up after 16 seconds. Pretty long time, I think. About 3 weeks later, same thing. I missed this one, though. Now, I NEVER get these kinds of calls, I rarely give out my number. I'm positive it was her the first time and fairly sure it was her the next time. This was after 2 and a half months of her telling me "Don't call and don't email!!" So I didn't. After about a month after the last mystery call, I broke NC, to tell her I was very sorry and still regret some very cruel things I said. To my surprise, she emailed back, saying she knew she hadn't heard the last of me. She went on to say she has always known I was sorry, and that we both could have done better and that we both made mistakes. She asked some open-ended questions, so I answered and we exchanged a few emails, my last one saying, once again, how sorry I was and that I truly wish her happiness and health and love. She gave me closure, bless her heart! I didn't expect a return email, as I kind of made it sound like my last one, which it will be, and she didn't. I guess we both have all the closure we need. But I'm still curious, IF it was her that called, why? She said "Don't call or email". Silly for me to still be tripping on something so trivial, but I'm hoping for a good answer, what I don't know. I trust you good people, Yahoo! Answers is full of middle-schoolers for the most part. Thanks!
Exit Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 At this point, what are you possible looking to find out from any of us? How long has it been since these phone calls took place? You have no proof that it was her. Even stranger is the fact that you've exchanged emails since then and gotten some amount of closure, yet you're still worrying about what the phone calls meant (if it was even her). Surely if she had something to say or something to admit to, she would have told you in the emails.
Soul Bear Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 It could be anyone. Probably her, but who cares. It's all over now
Author lonelypiscesguy Posted October 14, 2009 Author Posted October 14, 2009 I know, you're both right. Stupid question to begin with. I guess it's the lingering feelings I still have for her. There is no hope of making up and I would be sick to get back with her even if she wanted to. I have, for the most part accepted the obvious, she is dating again, I am dating again, I do wish her well, really, and when I think about the 'why' of my 'obsession', I think (a I still need some more time to get COMPLETELY over her and (b it is so rare to meet someone that does it for us, and rarer still to meet somone we do it for, that when it ends, it is hard to accept, at least for me. Sorry to waste your time with nonsence.
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