joeisreallycool Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 im 19 years old and am still a virgin, i regularily go out to bars with friends but rarely talk to any girls coz i lack confidence. i get so depressed when i try to get with a girl and get turned away, anyone got any tips for geting a girlfriend?? any female adivce would be very usefull. thnk you
tara.tang Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Im confused...do you want to get laid or get a girlfriend? Theres a big difference between the two. If you want a girlfriend, I would NOT recommend approaching them like you want to hook up. Hook ups can turn into a relationship but it doesnt happen very often and you might not be getting a good quality girl. If you want an actual girlfriend and not an one night stannd, maybe its your "getting laid" attitude thats getting in the way.
stace79 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Either way, you need to lose the attitude that you just want to "get laid". That is a huge turn-off to any respectable woman. If you look at women just as an opportunity to get sex, then you aren't going to have much luck at all.
BookerT Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Either way, you need to lose the attitude that you just want to "get laid". That is a huge turn-off to any respectable woman. If you look at women just as an opportunity to get sex, then you aren't going to have much luck at all. Not really, a lot of guys just want to get laid, and they succeed all the time. But they just don't shoow it all over their face.
stace79 Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Not really, a lot of guys just want to get laid, and they succeed all the time. But they just don't shoow it all over their face. That was sort of my point -- if he's just thinking about getting laid, women will pick up on it, and even the ones who might have been okay with a one-nighter will run for the hills. Unless they're just totally vapid.
Sith Apprentice Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Alcohol, and If i wanna get laid I go on Match.com and message a few heifers and booger bears.
Els Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Desperation is the biggest turn-off ever. Go into it with an open mind, thinking of enjoying your time with a woman EVEN if it doesn't get you into the sack that night itself, and you may be pleasantly surprised.
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