DidiLU Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I feel stupid even writing this but I'm pretty pissed right now. I'm waiting. I'm sitting here waiting for this man to call me. My phone is just glued to me. He says things like I will, I am, yes, definitely but then I sit and wait. Ok I get it- busy and playing me. But why put all that effort into it? Its been a few weeks now. We hooked up and played around but when I asked why no sex, he said he's not ready for that yet. He asks me to be patient- what am I being patient for? Either he's not interested or he is and he's scared. Which ever one it is, why can't he just man up and tell me.
boogieboy Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I feel stupid even writing this but I'm pretty pissed right now. I'm waiting. I'm sitting here waiting for this man to call me. My phone is just glued to me. He says things like I will, I am, yes, definitely but then I sit and wait. Ok I get it- busy and playing me. But why put all that effort into it? Its been a few weeks now. We hooked up and played around but when I asked why no sex, he said he's not ready for that yet. He asks me to be patient- what am I being patient for? Either he's not interested or he is and he's scared. Which ever one it is, why can't he just man up and tell me. Because if he tells you he isnt over his ex yet, trying to get back with her, or working on another woman, he cant keep you as his backup.
Author DidiLU Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 Sorry to confirm, if he tells me anything he's down a woman(me). Makes sense and I think you are right. So when he says be patient and its worth the wait- he holds the cards because obviously I am sitting here waiting. Why can't I find someone who wakes up and their first thought is "I miss her and I just need to say hi"
Cora Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Sorry to confirm, if he tells me anything he's down a woman(me). Makes sense and I think you are right. So when he says be patient and its worth the wait- he holds the cards because obviously I am sitting here waiting. Why can't I find someone who wakes up and their first thought is "I miss her and I just need to say hi" I wonder that all the time! I guess you just gotta be patient, just not for this guy though! Don't settle for guys who only consider you an option. You will never be happy. Don't allow him or any guy to hold the cards any longer. Someday you will meet a guy who will make you his priority. After all you deserve nothing less right?
Author DidiLU Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 So after wasting my time considering this guy as an option- how do I start NC. I have a blackberry and I'm on it all the time for both business and personal. Why is it that we bend over backwards for people who stay standing straight for us?
BCCA Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Easy, stop talking to him all together. Just ignore anything he sends you, and dont contact him. Stay NC
Die Hard Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 So after wasting my time considering this guy as an option- how do I start NC. I have a blackberry and I'm on it all the time for both business and personal. There are some phone and email blocking programs in the BB app world. I've never tried any of them but some have free trials, so you could test drive them first. Might even find a free one.
Author DidiLU Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 I play ball 2 nights a week with this guy BB app I will check that out.
Die Hard Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I play ball 2 nights a week with this guy BB app I will check that out. They're listed under the category "phone services" in the bb app world. I can't check them out right now since I deleted the app world due to memory leaks, but if my memory is correct, there are a lot of them. Plus, you can download one then delete the app world if you wish so you won't have memory issues. When I install the app world my device gets laggy.
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