rainbowsandkittens Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 so when my ex and i were together- as a sort of project- i created an online stock trading account and my ex managed it- buying and selling. not a lot of money. we both have the passwords and account info. when we broke up he told my best friend that he was still going to check it every day etc etc. (i didn't care and was a little annoyed that he felt the need to tell her to tell me that.) as much as i need the money i was fine just letting it sit. anyway since we went nc 3 weeks ago 3 out of the 4 emails he's sent me have been about the account. i have been very torn what to do about it- cash out and close it? change the password? just let it stay the way it is or let him keep investing? very torn. today he sold everything we had bought (with my approval). so now i just have money in the account. so it would be easy for me (i think) to cash out and just be done with it. but this is the very last thing between us and without it- well i'm not sure i will ever hear from him again. plus, i feel like it's a little like an f you to him, which is not how i intend it. half of me thinks- we're done so this is it, end all ties with him. the other half thinks- this is truly shutting the door forever and without it he's never ever ever coming back (i asked one of my friends again if he thought he was coming back and he said "if so it won't be for years" which is probably true but hurt so bad to hear someone say). i've blocked him on fb. erased his number, put away everything that reminds me of him. this is seriously the very last thing. i had a very very bad day emotionally (found out i have to have some pretty serious oral surgery) and i am at a loss about what to do. any advice is appreciated. thanks.
ecm Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 If it's it your name and he was not nice, take it ALL. If he was nice, I'd split it. You might have to pay tax on it though...maybe take yours and reinvest in a Roth or something where you won't be penalized right now on any profits you made? Oh- LOL- you mean about the ex? see sentences 1 and 2 please. 1
Author rainbowsandkittens Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 oh it's all my money....
ecm Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Than why are you even thinking about it? get that $$$$$. 1
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