Kristy19 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 So I've posted on here a thousand times about a guy I was talking to in the navy well tonight we were texting then all the sudden he sent me a text saying this " Hey um doing me a favor and take a hike its obvious that we'll never see each other and I'm dating someone new. I'm very happy and you should be too. Buh bye. Couldn't even call to say it. I'm hurt but I'm not crying. Its sucks but I'll grow and move on. The sad part is he couldn't even call to say this which proves he's a ****ing pussy.
Art_Critic Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Buh Bye is right Kristy... Lose his number... By the way.. it sounds like a girl wrote the last text.
ecm Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Buh Bye is right Kristy... Lose his number... By the way.. it sounds like a girl wrote the last text. DEFINITELY A GIRL....or else his someone new is a guy. "buh bye"?! That should be enough to get you over him alone.
Author Kristy19 Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 yeah thats what I thought so I tried calling him so I could get everything I wanted to say off my chest to get closure but you know who picked up? his " girlfriend". Saying that if I call again she would put a restraining order against me. First off, we're miles apart VA beach/ Northern VA. About 400 miles or so. Haven't seen him since forever, and I have no reason to be in that area. So that tiny piece of paper is something I would wipe my ass with.
ecm Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I'm pretty sure SHE can't get a restraining order from you calling HIS phone... but don't quote me on that. What a b*tch and what a d*ck for letting her answer his phone. they sound icky.
Author Kristy19 Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 They do and are. And you know what? I really want to call him because I feel like there are a lot of things left unsaid and its better to be adults and talk it instead of through text. All I really want to know is why? And he couldn't talk to me and say why. Another crazy thing is this so called "girlfriend" was an ex-girlfriend he always talked **** about to me. Calling her a stalker and all she wanted from him was sex. Now when he's done with her I know he's going to call me and say that he made a mistake (again) and that he loves me and all that bs but I think I'm just going to tell him that I can't have someone like you in my life. I'm 20 years old, I want to stay concentrated on my dance, school, and be around people who won't do the **** that you did to me. I don't know I'm just so hurt and feel really betrayed by him. I want so much to punch him in his ****ing face.
ecm Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Now, punching in his f****ng face MIGHT be a lgeitimate reason for a restraining order. I know. It is so hard to WAIT to get to say things you want to say. If you try right now, he won't hear them anyway. He knows he's being a d*ck. You WILL get the opportunity. Just wait. Trust me. If you don't, he'll be saying those same things about you to her. What really sucks is knowing he's a d*ck and STILL wanting to say those things to him. Funny how that works, huh? I wish I could take my own advice, but the best "telling him" is SILENCE. If you can do it, I am jealous for sure. It drives them nuts. He is expecting a reaction. Use your head before you do anything. Good luck. F*ck him.
Turista Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 You dodged a bullet with this one, but I suspect it will take time for that to become entirely clear to you... You have your whole life ahead of you and this jerk's probably gonna marry a stripper...
Art_Critic Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Please don't call him anymore.. While she can't have a RO put on you.. he would have to do that since it is his phone you are calling but he would also have to prove that you threatened her/him... you need to realize that she is nuts and he is a jerk and they need to be left alone.. Sorry...
Author Kristy19 Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 Thanks guys. I know I dodged a bullet with this but it sucks because I was willing to be in a relationship with a someone in the military and for this to happen and he couldn't confront me about just how of a man he is. Its probably for the best its a lesson learned. Something bigger and better is probably heading my way anyways.
PinkToes Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Thanks guys. I know I dodged a bullet with this but it sucks because I was willing to be in a relationship with a someone in the military and for this to happen and he couldn't confront me about just how of a man he is. Its probably for the best its a lesson learned. Something bigger and better is probably heading my way anyways. Absolutely! Much bigger & better. This guy doesn't have a clue, and you're definitely better off. Someday he'll be nothing more than a brief mention on your "What was I thinking???" list. We all have them. Keeps us humble. Actually, my list is kinda long. But I'm not giving up!
Author Kristy19 Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 Absolutely! Much bigger & better. This guy doesn't have a clue, and you're definitely better off. Someday he'll be nothing more than a brief mention on your "What was I thinking???" list. We all have them. Keeps us humble. Actually, my list is kinda long. But I'm not giving up! That really made me smile. Thanks.
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