SQL Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I was in a relationship with this girl for 3-4 year, it's been a year now we have been apart. After her, I started to date again..this new chick I'm with now..keeps reminding me of myself with my ex..like, how I used to drop my ex to her train and wait until she leaves..and waved..cared abt her more than anything, always wanted her to be happy more than anything...miss her, wanting to talk to her..and yadyada u get the point..after break up it feels she didn't really care a lot...or never meant anything to her for all i did...n now that this new chick doing all of this..I feel so bad..that i'm being my ex with da new girl. She is..too sweet. Every thing she does reminds me of me. And I hate it..it hurts and makes me feel bad b/c I don't have feeling for this girl..I don't love her..just like w/e with her. I told her how i feel, but she won't let go...I feel bad that I can't treat her nice and fair...i also had sex with her and couple of others..now more with her only..but none of that felt good..it was just SEX..I was up and done.. It's strange for a guy to feel like that..lol..but being honest..and this new chick is everything I ever wanted..but this want doesn't matter anymore. I really don't know what's wrong with me. I feel so dull inside. I do everything, hang with my boyz..party.girls.work..everything but idk still feel so empty or something is missing? and if it's my ex.. seriously who feels anything for someone after a year? Piece of advise or suggestion or comfort would be great. Thanks!
BookerT Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 You're probably looking for the type of excitment no one can provide in the long term. You're always looking for the initial spark. No cure for that other than to realize that the initial chemistry and excitment only lasts a few months.
Author SQL Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 You're probably looking for the type of excitment no one can provide in the long term. You're always looking for the initial spark. No cure for that other than to realize that the initial chemistry and excitment only lasts a few months. I'm sorry, but i didn't quite understand. All the girls that I have been with isn't one that I ever thought of having a "long-term" relationship with. It's like, after dating them, I realize they're not what I want...at first it seems they're from far, when i get close..its like they're totally different. Hard to explain but idk..
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