brock9911 Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 yeah so i decided to go and grab a few things of mine that i had left at my ex's house...we arranged a time i would go there to get them. i know things were a little strange cuz she tried making jokes and small talk over texting. when i got their her 2 little cousines who were like my little girls were there and they came screaming and hugging me...i felt ****ty but what ever... we talked for a few just to kinda catch up on life. than i left and went home. i had people over my house and this girl im seeing was on her way. now as im waiting and we were watching tv i got a phone call from my ex asking me to come outside. i walked out and she was in her car. she asked me to get in so we can talk, and i could see she was freaking...anxiety like crazy, histericle. i offered her a xanex but she turned it down...she doesnt want to medicate anymore. ok, but instead the one who HATED weed and when i smoked it, is now a pot head...so shes still medicating herself. she goes on to ask why i distanced myself from her in our relationship and why i didnt show her affection the way i used to....she F*CKING CHEATED ON ME!!! was i supposed to be ok with that...4 guys, and she tried with my friend. i basically gave her the cold shoulder and told her it can never work. i dont trust her and i can never forgive what she did...i walked out of her car and i said good bye and good luck. she got histerical again, and i than walked away....oh and best part, while we were in the car the girl im seeing puuled up and walked in...bad timing 1- why do i feel bad abiout my ex... she dumped me for cheating when it was her who cheated. 2- now this new girl is upset cuz she thinks im not over my ex. i told the new girl im not ready for a relationship, but we can hang out and talk thats fine by me. shes moving in way to quickly. and so what if im not over her, i still cant get back with her...she ruined things a long time ago
GrayClouds Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 1- why do i feel bad abiout my ex... she dumped me for cheating when it was her who cheated. 2- now this new girl is upset cuz she thinks im not over my ex. i told the new girl im not ready for a relationship, but we can hang out and talk that's fine by me. shes moving in way to quickly. and so what if im not over her, i still cant get back with her...she ruined things a long time ago 1. Because you cared for her and despite your terrible roar and gnashing of teeth your a deep emotion guy. And part of your relationship with her was you taking care of her problems, you were her white knight, a habit that is difficult to stop. Just because you can now see she is a car accident in process it does not mean you like to see her bloody. 2. That is her problem. I suspect this girl is half into you because your a challenge, not to say your not a great catch with your brooding yet sensitive rock star demeanor. Right now she likes the chase of trying to win over the heartbroken guy. Being pissed is one of the tools. This girl may be Mother Theressa in a mini skirt, but I would be very careful of this one. I mean no disrespect of her but I suspect she the type who will bail once the challenge is over (follow by a new "She left for No Reason" thread) Happy healthy people do not want to get involve with the heartbroken and unavailable. Let alone be upset because they are still working through their heartbreak. She knew the score coming in and she already being this selfish now!!!! Protect yourself from this one, better yet, tell her you will call her when your ready. Just like the drugs, booze, bad drama producing friends friends, she's just another distraction. Not that they do not offer pleasure, it is just often their generally counter productive. "Do not bite at the bait of pleasure, till you know there is no hook beneath it."-Someone else who is smarter then me .
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