Soul Bear Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 I'm starting to miss that feeling of being heartbroken a little bit (almost). I know it sounds crazy, but man I learned SO much this time round and it paid dividend when I was finally over her! So for all those of you who are going through the mill, the BEST advice I have for you, is MAKE THE MOST OF IT! Use all those emotions and feelings to make yourself 20x more than you ever thought you would be. Know your value, start feeling like a prize. ANYONE who wants any part in your life will have to work damn hard to get it. Ex's included. But you are waaaay better off without them anyway. The next one is ALWAYS better, and I am testimony to that myself right now. Good luck guys
GorillaTheater Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 Glad to see you doing better, Bear. Thought we were going to have fly over there to set you straight on the NC thing there for a while.
Author Soul Bear Posted October 12, 2009 Author Posted October 12, 2009 (edited) ahaha, good to here from you Gorilla. Yeah quite a big change from where I was at when I first joined. If it weren't for all of you and your help and advice I wouldn't be where, or who I am today. 200% healed up. I say 200% because I'm even better than before! Take heed guys. Follow the advice you are given on here from people. Especially concerning NC. Sometimes it's not what you want to here, but I'm telling- It's the best damn advice around. I have seen people move from LS to another forum as they didn't like what they were told. Guess what? They are still going through it. Above all else, never underestimate the power of being positive....I swear it's a golden rule to feeling totally freaking awesome Anyone can do it, and I know you all have the power within yourselves to make it so. It takes a certain person to post on LS. Edited October 12, 2009 by Soul Bear
Nedved Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 great to hear your back in business soulbear. I followed your story with interest and i'm delighted to hear your well on the way to recovery. Nc was horrible to begin with!!! hated it back in May. Buts its the only way!!!! It'l make us all stronger.
fabulous_chk Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I didn't follow NC...and ended up in cheating, flirting and jealousy forum.:( Glad you're over things. Mwaaah!
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