brokenglass Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 I got an email from my sister yesterday over Facebook. Apparently, my ex contacted my sister through Facebook through her mothers' account (my sister and her mother are friends for all of the silly games/application stuff on there). Considering my ex is taking another week off from her 3 jobs for the 3rd time this year to go to New Jersey again to see her internet boyfriend, she just took it upon herself to ask my sister if she wanted to see our son while she was up there on vacation. How exactly am I supposed to feel about this? I was told to "stay the **** away" from her family when we broke up earlier this year. I was told by her, her father and her step mother and have done just that since then. I understand my sister wants to see my son, but isn't that something I am supposed to take care of? Can I please have some advice on how to handle this? My first reaction was to call her up and curse her out but, I've refrained from doing that. I am pretty upset that she thought it would be a good idea to do this. Its MY f**king sister and MY f**king family, not hers.
Island Girl Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 (edited) Your SISTER'S loyalty should be to you. She is the one who should put you in the loop out of respect for your relationship with her as a close family member. You can not control the ex. But you can make sure your sister says "have you checked with ____?" OR "Great idea. I'll just double check with _______ first." Your ex WILL get the idea that you are going to be involved regardless and that she can't circumvent you. Edited October 12, 2009 by Island Girl
Author brokenglass Posted October 12, 2009 Author Posted October 12, 2009 Well my sister did contact me about it. Apparently my ex sent her a friend request as well, which my sister was unsure about. My sister wants to see my son but didn't know if I felt comfortable with my ex bringing him to her, so in essence she did contact me about it. My sister and I have an estranged relationship. My entire family does with me to be honest. I just felt like, my ex was telling me that since they don't talk to me, she'd step in and involve herself without my permission. I am honestly pretty f**king pissed off about it.
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