NowhereToHide Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 There's been a lot of talk whether or not affairs are fantasy or reality. But there's also been some talk about trying to see your AP (or xAP) for who they REALLY are and not the idealized FANTASY of who you thought they were (or who they wanted you to think they were). Many of us that were in shorter A's never really got to see the "real" person behind the AP. Everything was done in a bubble. Does anyone have any advice? How do you not idealize them and time spent together? Even when you KNOW that the reality exists?
MistyK Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 There's a section in this book about this kind of situation, might be worth you checking out. http://www.amazon.com/How-Break-Your-Addiction-Person/dp/0553382497/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1255322838&sr=8-1
Author NowhereToHide Posted October 12, 2009 Author Posted October 12, 2009 There's a section in this book about this kind of situation, might be worth you checking out. http://www.amazon.com/How-Break-Your-Addiction-Person/dp/0553382497/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1255322838&sr=8-1 Thanks Misty!
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