Ruby Slippers Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 all i said was to not text me or call me again. i left pissed off and she knew why. so it is up to her to reach out to me and apologize. i am definetely not contacting her. Soooo... you told her not to contact you, and you're waiting on her to contact you? Sounds like you're both playing stupid games.
Citizen Erased Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 i never called her a whore. all i said was to not text me or call me again. i left pissed off and she knew why. so it is up to her to reach out to me and apologize. i am definetely not contacting her. She made out with another guy in front of you and you would pick up her calls? Wow. She has you wrapped around her little finger. No wonder she did that, clearly you will let her get away with it.
Toe Jam Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 dude.. you don't go around calling women whores.. i sort of disagree with that, but thats just me
Phateless Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 last night my gf calls me up and invites me down to hang out at a bar with some of her friends. i get there and everything is good but sometime during the night i said something that sent her in a rage of furty. we had both been drinking so it was alcohol induced. anyways she keeps coming back on to me then getting angry again, talk about seeming bipolar. anyways i am sitting on a chair enjoying a drink when all of the sudden she grabs some dude and starts dancing w him on the dancefloor, i didnt really mind until i look back over and see them straight making out. WTF!? i got pissed and went over and talked to this other girl then i see them together ****in holding hands and **** for the rest of the night. i didnt say a word to her and just left. is she trying to make me jealous or wtf is going on here?!?! Dude, grab your balls and LEAVE. If you stay with her ONE SECOND LONGER, this is entirely your fault. She's already shown you what kind of person she is. If you choose to stay then that's on you.
Jilly Bean Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 I still want to know what you said to her to set her off. Regardless, sounds like a toxic young love. lol
WineCountry Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 I still want to know what you said to her to set her off. Regardless, sounds like a toxic young love. lol Yes..I want to know what he said too. And he is avoiding the question. MATT..HONESTLY...what did you say to her to piss her off ?? What was it..without cleaning it up either. What EXACTLY did you say??
Author matt155 Posted October 12, 2009 Author Posted October 12, 2009 i said somethin about her friend and she got pissed. then i was told i wasnt giving her enough attention. but whatever her reasons were whatever. it was not necessary
WineCountry Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 (edited) i said somethin about her friend and she got pissed. then i was told i wasnt giving her enough attention. but whatever her reasons were whatever. it was not necessary DUDE..can you ANSWER the question?? What EXACTLY did you say about her friend?? Word for word. YOU came on here asking us about your girlfriend having the nerve to do what she did in front of you..so be fair and tell us WHAT THE HECK YOU SAID!!!!!@!!!!!!! Stop avoiding the question. You had no problem telling us what your girlfriend did, blow by blow. So time to 'fess up. Edited October 13, 2009 by WineCountry
Author matt155 Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 i told her that her friend looked rugged that day. and she blew up. thats all.
Jilly Bean Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 i told her that her friend looked rugged that day. and she blew up. thats all. LOL. Somehow, I get the feeling we're only hearing the top of the trees... I dunno, Matt. I know chicks, owning a vagina and all, and we tend to not go off to that extent unless we are REALLY provoked. I have a feeling you said more than her friend looked "rugged". Just a hunch.
aerogurl87 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 i told her that her friend looked rugged that day. and she blew up. thats all. "That's all" is 9 times out of 10 code for "there's more to the story but I'm not gonna say what it is". So what are you leaving out of this?
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I'd get rid of her and meet someone else. Whenever i try to meet people i use 801******* :laugh:LMFAO That's a SLC phone number. Who are you trying to get back at in SLC?
FloaterShimmy Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 You should apologize to her and beg for her forgiveness and make sure to say things like "but i love you" I agree that he's overreacting. She was probably just lining up a potential threesome. OP: have you ever discussed your gay fantasies with your girlfriend?
memorygospel Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 haha are you a loser or what (not the guy who originally posted)? why would you need to apolagize for calling her a whore if you don't wanna see her again and besides it is an accurate description of her given her behaviour if your gf just ****en made out with another guy right in front of you are you saying you would just tuck your tail between your legs and walk away?
Bejita463 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 haha are you a loser or what (not the guy who originally posted)? why would you need to apolagize for calling her a whore if you don't wanna see her again and besides it is an accurate description of her given her behaviour if your gf just ****en made out with another guy right in front of you are you saying you would just tuck your tail between your legs and walk away? No offense is intended here, because I am genuinely curious. How old are you?
Soul Bear Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I feel like there is more to this than we know..... OP, spill some more beans....we're hungry...
memorygospel Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 i'm 21 why? are you going to try and call me imature? i'm sorry but if my girlfriend did something like that i'd be furious, there is no way i could just brush it off, walk away and say oh well lol btw in case you didn't know i was responding to a guy earlier who said you would have to apolagize for calling her a name later on which is just stupid seeing she would need to be the one apolagizing, i think if this happened to anyone man or woman they have to right to be angry and say whatever they feel at the time don't you think?
Bejita463 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 i'm 21 why? Mostly because I was curious due to the way you convey your thoughts. are you going to try and call me imature?I do not see as there is any need for me to do that. btw in case you didn't know i was responding to a guy earlier who said you would have to apolagize for calling her a name later on which is just stupid seeing she would need to be the one apolagizing,Two wrongs don't make a right, and if she did apologize she would then have the moral high ground. She apologized for her inappropriate action, and until she receives an apology for the language directed at her, she is going to stay up there. This is provided her apology is accepted. We cannot control how others behave, but we can try to control how we do. i think if this happened to anyone man or woman they have to right to be angry and say whatever they feel at the time don't you think?I don't feel abusive language is necessary. Though I admit that I cannot claim I've never received such during a quarrel, and unfortunately I cannot claim I've not done the same. If I were to ask for relationship advice however, it is unlikely that I would be looking for possible insults to toss.
memorygospel Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 Yeah I agree with what you said but my "advice" is just what I would have done and besides it has already happened to the guy so I was just giving my insight anyways. In hindsight sure it isn't a good idea to resort to such measures but in the heat of the moment with all the emotions I don't think any red blooded person alive could resist but give her a verbal spraying...but maybe thats just me lol
seibert253 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 last night my gf calls me up and invites me down to hang out at a bar with some of her friends. i get there and everything is good but sometime during the night i said something that sent her in a rage of furty. we had both been drinking so it was alcohol induced. anyways she keeps coming back on to me then getting angry again, talk about seeming bipolar. anyways i am sitting on a chair enjoying a drink when all of the sudden she grabs some dude and starts dancing w him on the dancefloor, i didnt really mind until i look back over and see them straight making out. WTF!? i got pissed and went over and talked to this other girl then i see them together ****in holding hands and **** for the rest of the night. i didnt say a word to her and just left. is she trying to make me jealous or wtf is going on here?!?! Totally disrespectful. She should be an XGF.
Untouchable_Fire Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 LOL. Somehow, I get the feeling we're only hearing the top of the trees... I dunno, Matt. I know chicks, owning a vagina and all, and we tend to not go off to that extent unless we are REALLY provoked. I have a feeling you said more than her friend looked "rugged". Just a hunch. Um... nothing that can be said should be able to provoke that kind of response. Matt, your dating a worthless trashbag. Just dump her and move on... let some other poor bastard settle for her.
Soul Bear Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I don't think you should be putting up with this ****. Where is your dignity and your pride?! Show her what she lost, and show yourself what you can gain.
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