TheLoneSock Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 What's up everyone, been prowling this place for the past week or so, figured I'd just join so I can jump in on some discussions. I was recently contacted by an ex of mine out of the blue. We've been broken up for a good 2 and a half years now. I've long since moved on and I'm pretty sure she has too. But she sent me an actual letter in the mail (not sure how she had my address, I've moved since). I figured this was strange with all the media in the world like facebook/myspace, not to mention I still have the same cell number. Anyway there wasn't much in the letter about her or I, it was actually lyrics to a song. She said she had heard them on the radio and they made her think of me so she wanted to share. Strange since we haven't spoken pretty much since the break up. It was some slow rock lovish song by a swedish band I've never heard of. I'd post the lyrics but I don't think it's the actual song that's significant here. I think it was more about breaking the ice with me in some way, for whatever reason. I'm debating just trashing it. I don't want to be with her, and thought she felt the same. She was very shady and manipulative during the breakup, started talking to her ex shortly before we broke up, ect. Anyway, it was more her decision to break up than mine, so even though it was kind of mutual I would say she is the dumper. What's with this renewed contact? Trying to make sense of it. Don't want anything to do with her, my life is great right now. Let's hear it...
DSM2709 Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 I would say she's probably just curious to your well being. Women want what they can't have right? Well, she see's that you moved on, and you've peaked her interest. Play it cool, and at least respond and say hi.
Author TheLoneSock Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 Seems like an aweful long time to let go by before doing something like this, if it's just to check up on me. Over two years. She's always been one to avoid confrontation, she was kind of passive aggressive in the relationship, a terrible communicator. This was probably easier for her to do than calling me or something. I cut off all communication with her after the break up. She contacted me anyway a few times over the course of the following 6 months, all of which I ignored, then she fell off the face of the earth. Maybe I should ignore this too, as I don't see what could come out of it. You know the saying, you give a mouse a cookie, they're going to want a glass of milk. Girls are confusing.
justwantlove Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 IMO, I think you should just toss the letter to the side and forget she sent it. From what you say of her you dont like the person she is and dont see a future with her. You returning a letter or any acknowledgment of it will be sending out a vibe of interest. Guys can be just as confusing as girls.
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