Thebob Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 Ok I feel like my ex-girlfriend lied to me about how her ex-boyfriend and her broke up and I want to know what you all think. They went out for nine months in a long distance relationship, he would go see her 2 times a month on weekends and pay for the tickets. They are both in college, and they break up right at the beginning of May when school is out. So they made it from September-May as a long distance couple. The ex-boyfriend deleted her as a friend on facebook, took down all the photos, and wont ever speak to her again? she told me that they broke up because he wouldn't call her anymore and that they weren't talking as much so she ended up breaking up with him. She still tries to contact him but he simply ignores her. But the way I look at it is, if they made it going for 9 months, then why would you break up when your out of school for 3 weeks and you guys are back together in the same state again? Also why would he never speak to her again when he worked so hard to keep it going? and flying up their 2 times a month? I feel like something worse happened, but maybe im just paranoid. I just want to know your guyses opinion on this matter. Thanks a lot.
Arabella Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 It sounds to me like she's hiding the true reason for their breaking up. Like you said, someone who is working so hard on keeping a LDR going,\ doesn't suddenly start ignoring the object of their affections without a good reason. It sounds like she did something and he was the one to break up with her and go NC. But that's just speculation... Arabella
Author Thebob Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 Ya I am thinking that she cheated on him, and he found out.... And she wouldn't tell me that so she wouldn't scare me off. thanks for the speculation! if anyone else wanna give this one a try feel free!
kimflute26 Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly (I guess). I mean..... If I was with someone for 9 months and I realized it wasn't working, I wouldn't stay with them just because school was out. Because once school starts again the same story would be repeated. Either way, you're probably wasting brain power trying to figure out why your ex-girlfriend broken up with her ex-boyfriend... lol.
Author Thebob Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 Still though, it's kinda fishy in my opinion.
john1988 Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 It sounds fishy, she obviously feels guilty or why attempt to keep contacting him? I stopped talking to my ex because she did everything under handed and kept me hanging on while she studied abroad feeding me breadcrumbs and lying about seeing other people, then I eventually thought enough is enough and cut all contact, every now and then she attempts to contact me but I just ignore her. I know for a fact she will tell her friends and new boyfriend a completely different story. I'm thinking ur ex might be ashamed of what she's done or maybe she's in denial?
Author Thebob Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 because I just broke up with her, and Im tryin to fit the pieces together. And if I know she is a str8 up liar and cant tell me the truth, makes it that much easier to get over her
harmfulsweetz Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 Top and bottom of it, not your business. He may have been the bad guy actually-you thought of that? Maybe she's attracted to bad guys, Idk. I don't know the story or reason, neither does anyone else. Speculation is futile. Their relationship ended because well it ended, and it seriously has jack all to do with you.
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