jessiebee Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 Okay. I need some advice. Our 6 year anniversary is coming up this week and his birthday is on Sat. I'm not sure what I should do. He told me earlier this week that he doesn't want to be around me right now. That he doesn't want to feel like his worst day out of the week is the day I didn't leave when he got in. OUUCHH!!! I don't want to push him any further away because he said everytime I talk to him that's what I've been doing So I guess I want to know if not doing anything will help or hurt the situation??? I think I will just leave the kids with him on the weekend so they can spend time with him on his birthday but that's it. I don't want to do anything that pushes him away at this point and I feel like I'm walking on egg shells every minute of my day!! What to do?? What to do??
Susie1 Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 I think you should ask him what the matter is and try to cheer him up (give him his favourite dvd, foodetc..) but i wouldn't try too hard. You may just hurt yourself... If he's still pissed, I would say just get him a present and give it to your kids to give to him, and give him a little message. on somehting like have a peaceful day or something. I hope he calms down, becuase he seems to be a little cranky and OTT form this little description.
Author jessiebee Posted October 13, 2009 Author Posted October 13, 2009 Thanks, I am thinking just a card for right now. I know deep down he wants to work on things but he can't see past the anger he has towards me. I think I just need to stay far away for right now
Logik Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 If you have some time with the kids before the weekend, why not get them to make him a birthday card? Make it a fun project. Get some macaroni, some glitter, glue, cardboard, pens, paint etc and help them make a personalised card for him. He'll know you were involved and it says much more than you could ever say on your own.
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