RachLIVE Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 I've never cut anyone from my life before, I hope I never have to again. I know it was the right thing (and still beleive that it is) & initially I was feeling happier & its like a giant weight has been lifted..But now I dont just miss the relationship, I miss the friendship we had too. Im not ready to be just friends (the failed attempt forced me to cut him out my life), but I kinda never thought about the friendship aspect of everything because my mind had always been proccupied with the realtionship part. & now im getting over the relationship its hit me that we're also no longer friends..Which, well..Sucks. I guess its just another hurdle to jump..Better be the last one im getting fed up of everything now.
playlislay Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 Unfortunately missy, this is the way life goes sometimes. I miss one of my 'best-friends' too, but I came to terms that I had lost my best friend a looooong time ago. Maybe you need a new partner? Although Im not sure how long ago you two split up??? Ive been through a few men (not in THAT way! lol) since losing my 'major' ex (I say major as I have had a relationship since then), and no, I havent found anyone that could provide me with the special closeness and friendship that he did, but Ive made new friends a long the way. In fact, I'm friends with all of my exes except him. I have to admit that all of my exes are now great friends and I don't know where I would be without them sometimes As everyone would agree, time is a GREAT healer. Believe me. And you will find it with someone else, which I know is hard to believe at the moment. But you will.
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