ebab83 Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 I never feel like people should call me the next day. I think I would find it a bit clingy in all honesty. As long as they don't change the way they were with me altogether it's fine. I mean they didn't call me everyday before, why call simply because we had sex? I was just as much a part of that and I wouldn't feel the need to call them?
UrKillinMeSmalls Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 I never feel like people should call me the next day. I think I would find it a bit clingy in all honesty. As long as they don't change the way they were with me altogether it's fine. I mean they didn't call me everyday before, why call simply because we had sex? I was just as much a part of that and I wouldn't feel the need to call them? Well then you are one of a kind. That or somehow girls just get emotionally tied to me during/after sex (probably like that for most). Most girls I've encountered assume if I don't call that A) I'm a player and they've just been played, or B) the sex wasn't good and/or I wasn't satisfied, so they are hurt.
Lusitan Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 (edited) And while you're at it dispensing all this incredible advice, why don't you give us girls some pointers on how to spot guys like you. We need to be more prepared for possible encounters with males of your stature. Easy. All you need is to chat up a guy. Soon, you'll find one,(by getting to know him) who isn't interested in giving attention for free, to be her private psychologist, her best friend, her confidant, her 'anchor', in one package(boyfriend) and you have found a guy like me . And if you happen to get lucky enough to get a guy like that, to spend time with you: he's going to be the one you'll remember when you are married to a 'sucker' that is, a provider . Edited October 11, 2009 by Lusitan
Roxanna Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 I agree that if a guy expects to sleep with a woman again, he should call her rather than contacting her weeks or months later trying to hook up with her, because of how women view/feel about sex. However, women would also do well to keep in mind how men view sex, and act accordingly.
Lusitan Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 How is it shaming when I am saying it on here as opposed to saying it to him? He has no idea about this post It doesn't matter. He's not here but you are trying to shame guys into not doing what he 'did' to you, to other females. It's understandable. I always tell my friends which woman is more romantic or more into sports, or if she likes to sit quietly by the fire, so he knows how he can get to sleep with her. I'm sure a woman would want to call other females attention to whatever behavior. The woman didn't enjoy.
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