gerry ford Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 Ok so I have been dating this single mum for 2 months (she lives about an hour away). This was the first she had a relationship since the child and this was the first time for me. First month was great, we saw each other at least twice a week, I met the child (who is 1), and she even gave me a key to her place. We book a trip to go away in early September together, things could not have been better. Then one weekend I got slightly funny (was tired at the time), she was with the child all Sunday whilst I felt like a bit of a third wheel. I said this and she over reacted and said that I didn't want to spend time with her and the child. After I said I was sorry and said that I just needed a bit of time to adjust. She forgave me. However since then she has always been trying to keep me and the child separate. No more popping over in the week as she likes to spend time with just her and the child. She also started to get angry and over reactive of every little thing I did. Then one week I thought we had argued alot, so I thought I would make it up to her. I took champagne and flowers over to hers and left them in the kitchen. She rang me and went mad, saying that she wanted to spend time on her own & didn't want to see me. The next day she text saying she was in two minds about going away with me. Right so we went away and things were great, but since we came back I have not seen her. Last weekend she spent the weekend at a friends place and this week she broke up with me. She says she wants to be with me but because of her situation (she has no family nearby and can't leave the child with the father) she feels we have no future. Also that she can't see herself with anyone else but at the same time can't see it working. Since then she texts me saying she cant stop thinking about me. I invited her to come to mine this weekend with the child but she text me this morning saying she couldn't come (she made up an excuse saying her child kept her awake all night). I don't know what to do. I want to be with her but feel like this is a long time coming of which I started it all! She says she forgave me but really hasn't and now the relationship is doomed as she can't spend anytime with me. Am I being taken for a ride? Is she just making an excuse because she doesn't want to be with me. I feel as though this can work, but she just doesn't want it to. What to do, what to do!
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