amagordos Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 So i must have social anxiety because i am really really shy. I dont even like saying hi and bye to my family. I hate small talk. I gues the reason i am so shy is because i am very dorky and act like a big kid, so i am afraid i will be judged by that. My big sister told me that lots of people think im immature, I, however, know I am not immature because inside my mind there are lots of philosophical thoughts brewing. My biggest issue is talking to boys, especially boys i am interested in. I don't know how to show a guy i am intersted in him and i also am to scared to talk to him Like this one guy i really like in my music class that I really want to talk to but i don't have the guts to do it. I cant even look at him or smile. Do you have tips for this shy girl who also has never had a boyfriend in her life and i think its because of my extreme shyness.
Yukikazi Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 Hold his gaze for 3 seconds then smile... if you can't do that.. no other advice will assist as this is step 1
Author amagordos Posted October 14, 2009 Author Posted October 14, 2009 thank you very much, ill try that and i will be seeing him today hopefully.
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