ttriplett Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Not sure of a few things. Please help. We dated six months. A few nics in the road were she would try to avoid me and such, because afterwards she told me thats what the book told her to do. I said what? She said she read a book about how to get the love of your life to marry you. I thought it was crazy and it scared me a bit. But none the less a month later I asked her to marry me. She was so excited, I got her a cheap ring but we went and looked at others since I started making more money, but not a lot really. Anyway, her mother threw her out of the house and my best friend allowed her to move in with us. I heard her tell her friend that "he is my home" and after a few weeks she found a place to stay and said she needed a place of ehr own never had it and wanted it but it would only be like a storage place. She stayed there five night straight and I got mad, told her she abandoned me and we said a few things leading me to say so what am I? SHe responded the love of my life. She came over the next day before we made love for the first time in a week or so becuase i didnt see her and it all felt the same. I went to work and she went to her sisters and at like midnight she text me about her boss and a few problems and I asked her to come home, she said I told you i was staying here the night, I need to stop nagging her. Also said Im tired and upset not a good combo, I need to sleep, please don't be mad, love u. I responded, love u. When she picked me up the next day she was tired and cranky from teh 2 hour traffic drive and kinda was mean to me but slept half the way home. We argued a few minutes before gettingot her place about something, and I was like why are you mean to me on purpose? She said i'm not, then smiled and said maybe sometimes. But Ilove you. and smiled. When we got to her house she was tired still and cranky about having to work, and said what car am I taking, i said what ever one you want. she says I dont care, just decide, just take yours and ill give you this one tonight. She says fine, whatever, then just get my **** out of the car. I like an idiot said just get all your **** out. We both moved stuff out of the cars and she also asked for the phone beause we were on family plan and then left turned around and said you need a phone, here. Then walked away again. I drove off. Started crying wanted to call her, but got to work and didnt want to fight with her. I called her after work no answer, then on the fourth try she answered, and was like what? I said are you breaking up with me on facebook for real? She say you broke up with me. I said no ididnt and i was sorry for getting upset. She said can you call at a more decent hour? I asked her if it was over. And she said yeah its over. Hung up. I tried calling the next day and texting for 2 days I was very upset telling her what she meant to me and so on. She never responded. then text me on third day at 4am and said its just a good idea if youleave me alone.ur not teh one for me. i love you...but as a friend. Sorry. I will always be there for u. I responded seriously? Then no contact from either for 5 days. She called me left a message and said I had until the end of the day to get of her phone plan. I asked her if she would sit down with me and talk. She said there is nothing to talk about Ihave moved on. I text her back adn said I was sorry and i loved her, but thought alot about what she said and thought she was right. I wished her all the best. she called immeditely and told me all the same things about getting off the plan and she couldnt talk because she had some big event to go to. Said she didnt love me, never really did. We hung up and 3 hours later i text her adn said teh same hting again that I gave it a lot of thought and I wished her nothing but happiness. then a week goes by and nothing from either and she puts up a pic that i took of her at disneyland a week before we split. I didnt react, and 3 days later she puts up a moblie pic of her a her new bf, and send her sister a message about how this is her new bf and he is her inspiration and the reason she is acting so crazy but het thats what love is and love is all you need....i still didnt react. a few days later shes posting about being upset about canceling her dinner plans. that bring me to now, I am hurt enough by losing her, now why is she rubbing it in my face? She has a new guy, ok. Is she really in love with this guy or hurting me? Is it just rebound sex? I dont wanna think of her sleeping with someone else so soon, ut it makes sense kinda for her personality. What should I do. Still stay away from her? I really do think she loved me, becasue shes not that good of an actress, and hearing er phone calls to friends.
UrKillinMeSmalls Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I'm sorry but that big paragraph could really use some organization and line breaking. Kind of a wall of text.
boogieboy Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 She found someone she thought was a better fit for her, thats why she got the new place and didnt want to stay with you. You have been dropped. She fell out of love with you long ago, and unfortunately theres nothing you can do but leave her alone. You will have to move on with your life, find another woman, one that isnt as crazy as your ex was. And please google the word "paragraphs"
Author ttriplett Posted October 10, 2009 Author Posted October 10, 2009 It was a week prior she was telling her friends I was her home
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