storystation Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 basically i have been with my girl friend just over 3 years. I broke up with her because she talked to a "boy mate" (who she once dated) behind my back for a few days and didn't tell me. she moved out of my house etc. after 5 days went past of us broken up, she moved out to uni and didn't even tell me, her halls are like 20 mins away from her uni and her house is the same distance if not quicker. My sister told me about her moving out and she has been talking to other boys and stuff, i have seen pics of her with loads of boys etc and my sister saw her and saw loads of texts from boys and theres a pic of a boy kissing her on her cheek?? :S also i have found out from her mate that she has stayed around another boys flat in her halls :S but there "just friends". am really confused becuase she says she wants to be with me and loves me but wants me to accept that she will have very close boy mates. i think she wants to have fun and that, but i would rather not be with her becuase i dont trust her, o btw she cheated on my 2 years ago but told me about it. i have always treated her well and cant go on with out her. i cant eat sleep or nothing i feel like am going mad. any tips on how to get over her? o btw she lived with my at my parents house for a year. i need to forget about her and that but the thought of her dating another guy kills me inside
leap83 Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Tips? Stop searching for what she's doing. Only way it will help you heal.
unclarity Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 is sounds like she doesnt really care if the relationship is over or not. and because of that u should start the No Contact immediately or you will never be able to move on with ur life.
NoneoftheAbove Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 basically i have been with my girl friend just over 3 years. I broke up with her because she talked to a "boy mate" (who she once dated) behind my back for a few days and didn't tell me. she moved out of my house etc. after 5 days went past of us broken up, she moved out to uni and didn't even tell me, her halls are like 20 mins away from her uni and her house is the same distance if not quicker. My sister told me about her moving out and she has been talking to other boys and stuff, i have seen pics of her with loads of boys etc and my sister saw her and saw loads of texts from boys and theres a pic of a boy kissing her on her cheek?? :S also i have found out from her mate that she has stayed around another boys flat in her halls :S but there "just friends". am really confused becuase she says she wants to be with me and loves me but wants me to accept that she will have very close boy mates. i think she wants to have fun and that, but i would rather not be with her becuase i dont trust her, o btw she cheated on my 2 years ago but told me about it. i have always treated her well and cant go on with out her. i cant eat sleep or nothing i feel like am going mad. any tips on how to get over her? o btw she lived with my at my parents house for a year. i need to forget about her and that but the thought of her dating another guy kills me inside This is all you need to get over her. if you follow exactly what it says on here you will have no problem.. best wishes http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/
JaggedRoad Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 basically i have been with my girl friend just over 3 years. I broke up with her because she talked to a "boy mate" (who she once dated) behind my back for a few days and didn't tell me. she moved out of my house etc. after 5 days went past of us broken up, she moved out to uni and didn't even tell me, her halls are like 20 mins away from her uni and her house is the same distance if not quicker. My sister told me about her moving out and she has been talking to other boys and stuff, i have seen pics of her with loads of boys etc and my sister saw her and saw loads of texts from boys and theres a pic of a boy kissing her on her cheek?? :S also i have found out from her mate that she has stayed around another boys flat in her halls :S but there "just friends". am really confused becuase she says she wants to be with me and loves me but wants me to accept that she will have very close boy mates. i think she wants to have fun and that, but i would rather not be with her becuase i dont trust her, o btw she cheated on my 2 years ago but told me about it. i have always treated her well and cant go on with out her. i cant eat sleep or nothing i feel like am going mad. any tips on how to get over her? o btw she lived with my at my parents house for a year. i need to forget about her and that but the thought of her dating another guy kills me inside You really don't need someone like this in your life right now. She wants to have "close guy friends" and still be with you? Yeah, that's not going to work. Good job on breaking up with her.
Author storystation Posted October 12, 2009 Author Posted October 12, 2009 thanks you to every one who replied to my post, it has helped me alot. I cant stop thinking about this girl i used to see her everyday i stop hanging with my mates because me and her would spend all day together. i sit at home thinking about her while she is out partying it out and probs not giving a ****. do you guys reckon she will change her mind and come back home and sort things out or is she gone forever, i cant stop contacting her but i havent called her for 3 days before that she called me to come see me at my house and i said no coz i didnt wana get hurt any more, but i cant live with out her i need some help guys am going insane
laricla Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 You need to get out of the house. Call up your old mates and organise stuff to do every night of the week for a while. Go for a jog, join a gym, do french classes. ANYTHING to keep you busy and with people. You need to surround yourself at the moment, start enjoying th elife you denied yourself when you were with her. Yeah, you'll still miss her, yeah Itll be hard, but its going to start getting better pretty soon. xx
seibert253 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 You need to get out of the house. Call up your old mates and organise stuff to do every night of the week for a while. Go for a jog, join a gym, do french classes. ANYTHING to keep you busy and with people. You need to surround yourself at the moment, start enjoying th elife you denied yourself when you were with her. Yeah, you'll still miss her, yeah Itll be hard, but its going to start getting better pretty soon. xx No better advice here. Stay busy, the idle mind is the devil's playground. Finding another chick also helps.
Author storystation Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 quick update guys, she called me last week (friday) when she comes home from uni to stay at home over the weekend and wanted to see me, she called me like 5 times asking for me to come see her, i was not rude or anything i just said that i don't want see her all the times. i really miss her and stuff but do you guys think she will try contact me again, i don't mind working things out with her but she has to compromise. any advise would be good guys i feel like dying never knew love was so powerful.
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