I Broke Up with Boyfriend - Wondering When I Should Contact Him Again?

[SanFranGuy]

So a few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months. To make a long story short, he was a huge workaholic and through many talks with him, I realized he was never going to change no mater how much he may have wanted to. We were only seeing each other once a week because of his work schedule, and at first, the time I did see him made it all worth it, but it started to become not worth it anymore.

 

We ended on GREAT terms...he totally understood where I was coming from and we agreed that it was a great 4 months and that we were happy we met such great people. We also decided that we wanted to stay friends and still hang out.

 

So the day after I broke up with him, he called me and we talked like normal. That was Tuesday night (Today is Friday) and I have not heard from him since then. I really miss just talking to him every day...I think I was so used to it and now that I don't I miss it. I have been fighting urges to call him or text him, but I don't want to close the lines of communication because we did agree to stay friends and keep talking. But I am afraid that he might just be waiting for me to call him.

 

Thoughts? Should I contact him?

[unclarity]

hmm that is a difficult question. Are u completely over him? because i dont think it would be healthy just to be friends right now if you are not, plus if he didnt contact u maybe is because he needs this space cause the break is too soon?