xlnc Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Hey there, For the past 2-3 months I've been very emotionally involved with a girl from work (to be engaged in a year). Like letting each other take complete control of our lives. It was flirty and extremely passionate but nothing physical at all. About a week back I quit work and I can't help but think how things have changed. The first day after i quit she said she missed me, asked me out. Next day i asked her out, nothing materialized. For the past 2 months we've been so involved with each other emotionally (prolly exchanged 2000 messages in a 2 month period) For the past 2 days it's become very less and I got the feeling that something was bothering her or she was ignoring me. After letting that known i've left her to herself and i plan to give her space. Can I PLEASE get some help here.
inhindsight Posted October 11, 2009 Posted October 11, 2009 well, perhaps she realized that since she is in a relationship and going to be engaged, that having an emotional affair was NOT in her best interest.
Author xlnc Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 She wasn't really ignoring me. But I wasn't capable of pursuing it anymore. So I said "you're ignoring me" so I could shift it on her.
Author xlnc Posted October 11, 2009 Author Posted October 11, 2009 I feel it now. I love her. And I let her free. May God give her the strength to take the right actions if she ever feels the same.
Untouchable_Fire Posted October 12, 2009 Posted October 12, 2009 I feel it now. I love her. And I let her free. May God give her the strength to take the right actions if she ever feels the same. You sound kind of young. I think some day her actions will make sense to you. Until then, all I can offer in explanation... that is how women are.
amber01 Posted October 13, 2009 Posted October 13, 2009 I feel it now. I love her. And I let her free. May God give her the strength to take the right actions if she ever feels the same. Do you really understand what she wants. Why the cooling off? You are still guessing that leaving her is good for her. Just ask her & stop the guessing game. What is she expecting out of you. With that you will make you feel better what your course action will be correct or not
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