allin Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 My lover is always telling me how much he cares about me, adores me, etc. He tells me all the things he thinks are special about me, and all the ways in which he finds me beautiful. But...he has never said he loves me. I feel loved. Sometimes, when he's looking in my eyes, I think I can see it, which is strange. Never experienced that before. But...he has never said it. And while we have known one another as close friends for over a decade, we have only been together romantically for three months. Is this a guy thing? Is he telling me he loves me without saying it? Or maybe he just doesn't?
Cora Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Sometimes those three little words aren't so little. They can be the hardest words for people to say sometimes. Perhaps he is just afraid. Do you openly show your feelings for him?
Cora Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Also, you have only been together three months romantically. Give it some time.
Author allin Posted October 9, 2009 Author Posted October 9, 2009 yes, i am demonstrative but i don't say i love you either... Sometimes those three little words aren't so little. They can be the hardest words for people to say sometimes. Perhaps he is just afraid. Do you openly show your feelings for him?
Author allin Posted October 9, 2009 Author Posted October 9, 2009 too scared! lol If you love him....tell him.
Hkizzle Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 too scared! lol Huh? So you're scared to tell him "I love you" yet you're asking others why a guy doesn't say the same to you?
ashleigh422 Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Huh? So you're scared to tell him "I love you" yet you're asking others why a guy doesn't say the same to you? OHH yes.. this is a big deal. I agree.. how can you hold him to the same standards that you cannot yourself honor? You probably show him your love in other ways.. LIFE IS TOO SHORT.. If you know you love him, then tell him. This is not the 30s and you don't have to wait around for him. Wouldn't you rather know now IF he doesn't LOVE you like you LOVE him? I personally would.
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