Dark-Farmer Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Lots of posts are negative so i want to post a positive one. Recently while having sex with my girlfriend i decided to try something new. She seems to like it when (after we get going) i go hard and fast. But obviously if i do this it won't take long to cum. So i thought to myself that perhaps i shouldn't fight it. instead i told her i would just go fast but pull out cum and clean my self off and go back in and keep going before i had a chance to lose my erection. after having sex for a bit i preformed this maneuver quickly in about 10-15 seconds and i was able to stay hard and keep going. It felt really good. I didn't cum the second time but she enjoyed it and with practice i think i could cum twice. My question for the girls is; has anyone experienced this before? is it uncommon? or can lot's of men pull this off?
stepka Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Not at my age honey, unless he took a viagra or I went cougaring.
ashleigh422 Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Im only 25 so I cannot account for the couger aspect... However.. in all the sex I have had.. NEVER has a man done this. The only conern I'd have is that once she came.. is she really gonna want to keep going? You say she enjoyed it.. (REALLY.. for 10-15 seconds).. Id say focus on the more less intense moves until you can build up some major stamina.. then give it to her again and see if you can get yourself to come at the end with her or after her..
Hkizzle Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I thought you were going to write about how to have sex whilst doing handstands. How's going hard and fast a sex technique? Friggin I don't know about most guys, but changing pace is a natural way of having good sex.
ecm Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I thought you were going to write about how to have sex whilst doing handstands. How's going hard and fast a sex technique? Friggin I don't know about most guys, but changing pace is a natural way of having good sex. I think the technique question was about his "finishing" then cleaning up and going right back in for round 2. Dark-Farmer: Very nice of you to think of your lady like that I've had two exes that would do that. I think it's fun b/c it's sometimes a challenge
2sure Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Yes, its common. As old as sex itself. Men usually get off easier and faster than women especially before they learn to just sail past the first urge to cum. Most guys when they are younger, can just cum and then get hard again very very soon. I mean, obviously all men figure this out one way or another or we wouldnt be having sex with them.
jasonanderson Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Not at my age honey, unless he took a viagra or I went cougaring. By all means, please share more stories about this cougaring you speak of
MissJoness Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Yes, its common. As old as sex itself. Men usually get off easier and faster than women especially before they learn to just sail past the first urge to cum. Most guys when they are younger, can just cum and then get hard again very very soon. I mean, obviously all men figure this out one way or another or we wouldnt be having sex with them. I've never had a guy do that. EVER. Once they cum they fall right to sleep afterwards
2sure Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I've never had a guy do that. EVER. Once they cum they fall right to sleep afterwards MissJoness!!! Come on, you can't allow that. I would be out of my mind if a guy got me half way there and went to sleep. Have you never uttered the words "Get the F out of my bed"? . Its freeing.
MissJoness Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 MissJoness!!! Come on, you can't allow that. I would be out of my mind if a guy got me half way there and went to sleep. Have you never uttered the words "Get the F out of my bed"? . Its freeing. What do you mean by 'half way there"? When it happened I didn't know what to think. I figured it was normal. I used to read and hear about it all the time about how guys fall right to sleep after climaxing. It wasn't until I started asking friends that this was considered being selfish
phineas Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I must be abnormal. Most of my life I didn't loose my erection after I came. I'm 37 now & half the time I still don't loose it. I like to work it in slowly then go a little harder & faster but I also almost pull all the way out then plunge back in. Sometimes i'll just go deep & stay there for a little then go back to the previous rythmm. when I start getting close i'll pull out & use my tounge until I calm down then go back in again. It's easier to pull that manuever when i'm standing & she's on the edge of the bed or a stool or basically anything the puts her at the same height as my waist.
boogieboy Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 after having sex for a bit i preformed this maneuver quickly in about 10-15 seconds and i was able to stay hard and keep going. It felt really good. I didn't cum the second time but she enjoyed it and with practice i think i could cum twice. My question for the girls is; has anyone experienced this before? is it uncommon? or can lot's of men pull this off? This the same way I work. The women love it, I dont cum a second time either, but I dont need to. After getting the nuisance knutt out of the way, its all about making the girl cum as many times as possible.
Author Dark-Farmer Posted October 9, 2009 Author Posted October 9, 2009 Im only 25 so I cannot account for the couger aspect... However.. in all the sex I have had.. NEVER has a man done this. The only conern I'd have is that once she came.. is she really gonna want to keep going? You say she enjoyed it.. (REALLY.. for 10-15 seconds).. Id say focus on the more less intense moves until you can build up some major stamina.. then give it to her again and see if you can get yourself to come at the end with her or after her.. Not quite sure if you understood. i was having sex and when i was about to cum instead of slowing down or resisting i just came. Then i did the above and kept going almost immediantely while staying hard. I like to think my stamina is par or better, but 2 is always longer than one haha. And that's why i didn't cum again because she did and we stopped.
Author Dark-Farmer Posted October 9, 2009 Author Posted October 9, 2009 I think the technique question was about his "finishing" then cleaning up and going right back in for round 2. Dark-Farmer: Very nice of you to think of your lady like that I've had two exes that would do that. I think it's fun b/c it's sometimes a challenge Thank you! it alot different than the stop go method of avioding cumming and lets me focus on making her feel good instead of worrying about cumming too soon. After girls usually last longer than guys, with out foreplay or something.
ecm Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I must be abnormal. Most of my life I didn't loose my erection after I came. I'm 37 now & half the time I still don't loose it. I like to work it in slowly then go a little harder & faster but I also almost pull all the way out then plunge back in. Sometimes i'll just go deep & stay there for a little then go back to the previous rythmm. when I start getting close i'll pull out & use my tounge until I calm down then go back in again. It's easier to pull that manuever when i'm standing & she's on the edge of the bed or a stool or basically anything the puts her at the same height as my waist. will you marry me?
2sure Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 Thats the FIRST thing I'm shopping for after my Divorce.
Shin0bi1 Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 instead i told her i would just go fast but pull out cum and clean my self off and go back in and keep going before i had a chance to lose my erection. Dude don't clean up... just keep going dude... have her start talking dirty for rounds 2 and 3. Practice this and you will see that you can pop hard boners without too much effort and keeping it hard to the point where it might start hurting even after coming. And if you start softening up tell her to start the oral pleasure and BAM right back for some more action ahah Keep doing your thing dude and get your work out! -Shin0bi1
Thebob Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I wouldn't do that personally, because my stamina allows me to go for 1-2 hours of non stop hard goin sex. I honestly don't know why, but sometimes the girls dont enjoy it as much cause its painful (not the sex but the length of it). But some do, but if she enjoys that keep it goin man.
singlegirl Posted October 9, 2009 Posted October 9, 2009 I had a lover for 7 months who mastered this technique...After one all night session in which we literally did not stop he was picking the condoms to dispose of them ewww lol and he counted 9.....No word of a lie....it's all in the mind
Author Dark-Farmer Posted October 9, 2009 Author Posted October 9, 2009 I had a lover for 7 months who mastered this technique...After one all night session in which we literally did not stop he was picking the condoms to dispose of them ewww lol and he counted 9.....No word of a lie....it's all in the mind I found condoms make it difficult (or a no go) to do. Me and my girlfriend just stopped using them because she started the pill.
stepka Posted October 10, 2009 Posted October 10, 2009 By all means, please share more stories about this cougaring you speak of Well how old are you baby boy?
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