LB85 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 This guy is the first guy I've ever met who has everything I could like in a guy. We have known each other for a year now... He was the one who started flirting and was a real gentleman. He's amazingly good looking, the most good looking guy I've ever seen (or my friends for that matter), he's tall, muscled, tanned, and just perfect! Besides his looks, at first I did feel shallow that it was all I feel for and his smoothness but we started being in touch more often and talked about everything! He is well taught, respectful (or tries to be me but can sometimes be aloof), funny, goofy and actually, he's a lot like me. He always initiated contact but never made a move so I tried but that just made things worse and now we're not in touch anymore. Then I found out from his brother that he has had a girlfriend for the past year and a half. It shocked me, now the guy never cheated on her but he definitely lead me on. We would always hang around at parties and he made it a thing to keep in touch at least once a week (no wonder he never asked for my number:S). But now I just notice that I fell too hard too fast for him. I have never felt this way for a guy before. Its amazing that the guy of my dreams wont be mine and that I will never find someone half as great as him. I can't get over him even though I was angry that he doesn't let anyone know about his gf! She's his big secret because he's scared of family pressures...but I still think he could have made it clear to me that he wasn't interested. I sometimes think he was probably too scared to directly reject me and that he did like talking to me and enjoyed my company but just couldn't fall for me because hes already in love with his gf. It hurts...every time and I'm stuck...on him!
boogieboy Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Stop talking to him entirely. Thats the only way to eventually get him out of your mind.
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