rode103 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Hi, I have a Girlfriend, who is very possive and very emotional. I am very true to her and honest at every thing I say to her, howeever she thinks I am cheating on her(which I am not) and every time I am out with friends or attending a party or Just any where execpt home or work she says I am with some girl or the other and she starts crying, now she has started to say that she will commit sucide and make me responsible for it, all this is stressing me out a lot, she is crying all the time and all I am doing every day is conviencieng her how much I love her and am not cheeting her, It has been a long time since we had a decent conversation and my stress levels are at the peak and every time she speaks and cry's I feel like killing myself by hearing what she says. I want to make this relation work without getting stressed and have a normal social life. Please help.
PandorasBox Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 (edited) Oh wow this is not good! the only thing I know to tell you is, break things off with her. There will not be an easy way either. She obviously has some serious issues. I want you to know, and hopefully others here can help back me up, when I say, YOU are NOT responsible for HER actions. If she were to do that, as tragic as it may be, it is NOT your fault. I also wanted to add, is there someone you can talk to about this? A family member, close friend, counselor? Anyone? Edited October 8, 2009 by PandorasBox
Roxanna Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 She is emotionally abusive, insecure, manipulative and she's exhibiting a classic abuse cycle sign by making you validate your feelings for her constantly. Get out now. This can't be fixed. *Refer her to a therapist for her suicide threats. You should probably tell her parents/guardians about her suicide threats, and if she threatens suicide again, call the police.
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