lucky89 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Hi all, I have a pretty major issue on my hands and I really don't have anyone to talk to about it because no one I know really understands nor cares. Here's the situation. I met my boyfriend while he was in the U.S about 4 years ago and we've been talking/practically together ever since(we've dated other people but we always come back to each other because no one fills the void). The only thing is is that we have not been able to spend more than 2 weeks together because of the distance and our work schedules etc. Lately, I have been becoming really upset because I want to date, but I don't want to date anyone else without knowing how we would be we were actually in a real relationship and able to spend real time together. I don't want to have to deal with the mystery of not knowing how we could have been as a couple. I am in college, and he has a full-time job and an apartment and bills to take care of. The last time I saw him was when I went to England is December, which I am doing again this upcoming December. I can't help but feel that it is unfair that I am going twice in a year and he hasn't come here at all since Summer 2008. He gets upset when I say this because he believes I should understand that he has a full-time job, bills, an apartment, and a bunch of expenses, while I still live with my parents and don't pay any bills. He thinks it would be easier for me to do things like this because I don't have much responsibility as of now, which is true. Am I being too hard on him or should I understand his point more?
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