violaaa Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 In modern world, are the keys to keep a good and committed man lie in ladies's side? What kind of traits a woman must own in order to live a happy and peaceful life with a committed man? :)Thank for any opinions to open up my eyes:bunny:
Hkizzle Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Good looking, good body, feminine and nuturing, smart and interesting to talk to, challenging but not bitchy, takes care of a man but not needy. Sexy but not a slut. Good sense of humor and not naggy. That covers just about all of the points.
Trialbyfire Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 No one can keep anyone who isn't committed into the relationship. Beyond that, it takes two to tango. Reciprocate his emotional investment and if the two of you mesh, in all three categories of intellectual, emotional and physical, you'll have a killer relationship. Never, ever put anyone above you. You're someone too. Stand beside him, as proud of him as he is of you.
TaraMaiden Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 She must find a man who loves her enough to want commitment. Commitment is a choice, not a condition. A woman can be everything a man desires, and yet, she cannot keep him if he doesn't choose that. Audrey Hepburn - arguably the greatest and classic Icon of the perfect woman - had two husbands. Both of whom were unfaithful to her, and whom she divorced because of their adultery. Both instances very nearly killed her. Who in their right minds would commit adultery against Audrey Hepburn? yet they did. I have read two Biographies of her. one by her own son, and the other by Barry Paris. In neither one, could either author find anything demonstrably flawed in the woman. her only vice (if a vice it can be called) is that she smoked like a chimney. But betray her, they did. Hell's bells, if Audrey Hepburn can't keep a man, what hope have any of us got - ?! (to be fair, she did find the man of her dreams eventually. but it took a while. And she found a man who loved her more than she could love herself.) There. That's the secret. To love ourselves and be completely content and serene with the way we are. Happy in our skins. Then, to find a man who loves us more.
Hkizzle Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Oh, and you should learn kick boxing to keep the man in line. Also learn how to use a gun so you can blow the guy's brains out if he cheats.
Hkizzle Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 She must find a man who loves her enough to want commitment. Commitment is a choice, not a condition. A woman can be everything a man desires, and yet, she cannot keep him if he doesn't choose that. Audrey Hepburn - arguably the greatest and classic Icon of the perfect woman - had two husbands. Both of whom were unfaithful to her, and whom she divorced because of their adultery. Both instances very nearly killed her. Who in their right minds would commit adultery against Audrey Hepburn? yet they did. I have read two Biographies of her. one by her own son, and the other by Barry Paris. In neither one, could either author find anything demonstrably flawed in the woman. her only vice (if a vice it can be called) is that she smoked like a chimney. But betray her, they did. Hell's bells, if Audrey Hepburn can't keep a man, what hope have any of us got - ?! (to be fair, she did find the man of her dreams eventually. but it took a while. And she found a man who loved her more than she could love herself.) There. That's the secret. To love ourselves and be completely content and serene with the way we are. Happy in our skins. Then, to find a man who loves us more. Well see this is what I don't get. Why can't women use integrity and respect for women as their FIRST FILTER for a man? Then go through the attraction filter after that important filter? Instead of going through the attraction filter, and then hoping the man will behave?
Author violaaa Posted October 8, 2009 Author Posted October 8, 2009 She must find a man who loves her enough to want commitment. Commitment is a choice, not a condition. A woman can be everything a man desires, and yet, she cannot keep him if he doesn't choose that. There. That's the secret. To love ourselves and be completely content and serene with the way we are. Happy in our skins. Then, to find a man who loves us more. Oh TaraMaiden, I really love your words. We are building up our own qualities, but at the same time we should love ourselves first. And yes, finding a compatible man who loves us more is perfect:bunny:
motive2002 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Zero drama, feels good to the touch and smells nice.
phineas Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Lots of sex in different positions & rooms / furniture in the house is really all it took for me. Oh and the dirty talk. I can honestly say I never once considered cheating even when the opportunity presented itself because she fullfilled every need sexually for me.
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