ashleigh422 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 No backstory to this.. only this, I recently had a sexual encounter with a man. (the first time ever sleeping for the first time with someone while sober,,, yikes..) My expectations were this: He was shy and sweet and the "funny guy" figured that meant, ackward/shy/reserved/boring in the sack..and somewhat not experienced (he's slept with less than 5 ppl) TO ME.. that means, I can be the girl Ive always wanted to be, take charge and be the boss with the upperhand because Im better in bed than him.. whoo hoo.... finally..... I WAS OUTDONE.. I soon realized that my best before.. was nothing.. compaired and therefore, I'm not as goood as I thoguth I would be. How do I recover from this, I know things I wanna do and like.. in my fantacies.. how do I convert them into what I actually do? How do you let go of the inhabitions and just go for it? Please let me knwo some tips.. becuase I am insecure and don't wanna be in bed...
Hkizzle Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 You put on a big trenchcoat. Then get him in bed, and tie each hand to a bed post, and each feet to a bed post. Tell him it's just a game and not to worry so he can relax. Then rip the trenchcoat off, revealing a dominatix outfit with knee high boots, and a whip so big it would make Indiana Jones feel whimpy, and procede to scream "WHO'S YOUR MAMMA!"
Author ashleigh422 Posted October 8, 2009 Author Posted October 8, 2009 HAHA.. while funny.. Im not quite adventorous yet.. lol
boogieboy Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Glad to see you havent let your EGO get ahead of you.... Try telling HIM your fantasies. Youre inhibited because youre keeping them to yourself. Im 98% sure he'll go along with them.
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