Charles1978 Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Sorry if this is too long. First, some background. My g/f and I have been dating for about 5 months. I'm 31, she's 28. We've known eachother for about 18 months. I started dating another girl about two months before my current g/f and I started dating. I left that girl for my current girlfriend. I had always been interested in my current girlfriend, and I guess that her seeing me dating someone else made her realize that she was interested in me too. Anyway, that's beside the point. So I left the girl I was dating and began dating my current g/f. It has been a great relationship... probably the best relationship I've had. But my current g/f has always had an uneasy feeling about my ex, and what I thought was jealousy towards her. Well, that subsided after months went by with no contact between myself and the girl before her. That is, until last night. Long story short, she made me delete all of my friends on a social networking site who were friends that I met through the girl before her. Weird, but I did what she wanted since I don't talk to them anyway. She was acting weird after this, and we eventually went to bed and went to sleep. It's rare for us to go straight to sleep. Well, in the middle of the night (3am), I am awakened by her ripping the covers off the bed and barging out of the room to go sleep on the couch in the living room. She doesn't want to talk to me. I ask her "what the hell is wrong with you". She doesn't want to talk about it. Well, we try to go back to sleep pissed off at eachother for no reason. She then turns to me and says, "Ok, I had a dream that I walked into my room and you were having sex with her (my ex) on MY bed!" So basically, she got mad at me for a DREAM she had. A DREAM! She has always been so level-headed until recently. And honestly, she is changing for some reason and it is turning me off. Have any of you had your girlfriend and/or wife do something like this over a dream? I've never seen anything like this before. And I hope there aren't some other weird issues going on with her that I don't know about.
New Again Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Agree with sadintexas. A handful of times I have had such vivid dreams that when I woke up I had SUCH strong feelings leftover from the dream (sad, mad, whatever was going on in the dream). Can't say that I've ever actually acted on those feelings though. You definitely need to sit your gf down and ask her what's up her butt, because something is going on with her besides a bad dream...
boogieboy Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Be suspicious. I think she is trying to sneak a breakup on you. She might have met someone and is trying to make up a reason to break it off with you. Faking being mad about a stupid dream of your ex out of the blue...I mean thats just completely illogical even for a woman.
Hkizzle Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 I once had a vivid dream I was being chased by Zombies.... I'm so glad I didn't wake up with strong feelings left over from the dream!
Sam Spade Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 Yes, it has happened to me. In retrospect, I wish I had dumped the crazy ho on the spot.
bac Posted October 8, 2009 Posted October 8, 2009 From my dating experience on many different Personals. I really do not know what to think about men. I am dating men in 40s and possibly men in other age groups are different somehow. I have no idea why they do that, but they want to have sex with as many as possible females. All men I was encounting were into that. They were married, or attached, or casually dating. They all wanted to score with as many females as they can handle. In general, they are very busy. They do not have time to write a medium size email, to call on the phone, and even to come to your place for sex. I have no idea why they are so attracted to numbers and new people in dating. But it is the reality. I guess they are this way because they can not handle dating on personals. I mean they have too many females to choose and they want to try them all as soon as possible. Perhaps, your GF uses generalizations thinking about nature of men.
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