Lisa001 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Ok, I could use some advice because I'm new to this whole dating/courtship thing, and this guy that I met has me going completely nuts. A couple of months ago, I met a guy who I thought was FABULOUS! I think I fell in love with him from day one. I thought he had some wonderful qualities and he was cute as hell too. We connected immediately and I felt like he was feeling the same things I were. He even told me one time that I "scared" him. However, after a few conversations on the phone with him, I realized that something wasn't "quite right" with him. He would flip out at the drop of a dime, or he would throw temper tantrums like a kid when he didn't get his way. At the end of our conversations, I would usually feel COMPLETELY and TOTALLY confused like "what the hell did I say to make him wig out?" So this behavior continued for a few months. Often times, we wouldn't speak for days or weeks on end. I was always the one reaching out to him only to get the door slammed in my face. Why can't I just let him go? For some reason, he was on my heart and mind too often. I think I was trying to find that "person" I met the first night. Well recently, that "person" showed up again! I received a call from him out of the blue, and we have been talking everyday and he has been "normal". We've been closer now, than in the past. However, this time, he's more like a "friend". I have deep feelings for him, and I think he has them for me too, but for some reason, neither one of us wants to admit the truth. I'm afraid to tell him how I really feel about him because I'm afraid he might run or start acting crazy. I don't know if he likes me intimately, or he just really likes me as a friend. I'm sooooooooo confused. I know this is a bit much, but if anyone can dephipher this mess, I'd appreciate it.
higgo19711 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 hey thats a toughie.... Without knowing the root of the problem its hard to say why he would wig out. is there a ex or current person still in his life Maybe he has a medical condition that you are unaware of. I would be cautious with it
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