Weezy Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 It's funny, if you search on the internet, it talks about waiting 30 days before trying to contact your EX. While on here all the advice is strict NC. Has anyone tried contacting their EX after a breakup with 30-60 days NC and if so how did it turn out.
WiseOne1 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 I did, nothing special really happened, the only diffrence is if you wait between 30-60 days they flirt more and show more attention. I called her, she asked me all kinds of question, since have you had sex with anyother girl? Have you been dating? During this time if they've been dating someone else, they will start to complain about there current "BF" and tell you that there not happy....really there just testing the water, "you can hear it in her voice" that she wants to know if you still have feelings for her. During this time she called over and over again, and then once you start showing attention back, by calling or text messaging, they'll start fading away and calling every 2-3 weeks. So bassically nothing happens, the ex just test the water.
9Lives Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 It's funny, if you search on the internet, it talks about waiting 30 days before trying to contact your EX. While on here all the advice is strict NC. Has anyone tried contacting their EX after a breakup with 30-60 days NC and if so how did it turn out. we talked after a month or so. He was very nice. He took me out to eat and we have spent time together but I keep in my mind that he said he dont want a relationship and HE REALLY MEANT IT. I dont look at our time together as we are getting back together. i see it as he likes me still but still wants to do whatever he wants to do. I hope we get bacl together but I dont focus on it anymore. The best thing to do is start focusing your attention more on yourself. When he calls you, just be friendly if want but remember he is into himself and you need to keep that in mind. Live YOUR life. Live YOUR life without him. go forward. he will be around. if he wants more you will know. right not, im telling you, be glad you are cool and live your life on your own. it will work better for you that way. trust me, I was a mess until I changed my ways and thought process
Author Weezy Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 I did, nothing special really happened, the only diffrence is if you wait between 30-60 days they flirt more and show more attention. I called her, she asked me all kinds of question, since have you had sex with anyother girl? Have you been dating? During this time if they've been dating someone else, they will start to complain about there current "BF" and tell you that there not happy....really there just testing the water, "you can hear it in her voice" that she wants to know if you still have feelings for her. During this time she called over and over again, and then once you start showing attention back, by calling or text messaging, they'll start fading away and calling every 2-3 weeks. So bassically nothing happens, the ex just test the water. Sounds like I'm hearing that it wasn't worth making contact since you were the dumpee?
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