Surfer Girl Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Got the text on sunday..... decided to read it this afternoon.... I have a surfboard he bought for me.... I love this surfboard.... He wants to have a friend drop it off for me..... He hoped I was well ... My reply e-mail.... I would love to have the surfboard....Thank you, hope you are well too.... have your friend drop it off at the front porch.... take care..... Did not want to break NC.... but felt the surfboard was mine.... I have a feeling he wanted to test me.... to say... why don't you drop the surfboard off instead of my friend.... I know him well.... didn't go there.... and yes perhaps I could have ignored the text.... but I want and need that board... feel ok with the two line response.... There is nothing else he can text, call or email me about now..... Not expecting any more responses... I prefer the NC..... felt like I did the right thing.... but did not want to engage..... This will be the last contact.... but thinking I opened up communication again... and perhaps disrespected myself to accept the surfboard..... I felt he bought it for me, and I did deserve to have it..... selfish???? perhaps.... if his friend can drop it off at my house, I will be elated and it will be done..... Just hoping this will be end... and that I have not opened up communication.....
matt367 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Just accept the surfboard and resume NC. Your done with him and certainly have not opened any communications with him unless you choose to. Just accept it and go surf but stay NC. Good luck.
Author Surfer Girl Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Thanks Matt.... I do feel empowered.... to accept the board and move on.... Will feel much better when I have the board and have no reason for any kind of communication anymore.....
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