enchanted771 Posted October 6, 2009 Posted October 6, 2009 Practically from the getgo he announced what actresses were hot. Then next time, was telling me about the " hot" women he dated. Then, he noticed when women bend over, or how they have a nice rack or whatever. Then, its ok for him to text but when i do says " who is that your boyfriend"
Roxanna Posted October 6, 2009 Posted October 6, 2009 Practically from the getgo he announced what actresses were hot. Then next time, was telling me about the " hot" women he dated. Then, he noticed when women bend over, or how they have a nice rack or whatever. Then, its ok for him to text but when i do says " who is that your boyfriend" Are you asking if these are red flags? At the very least, they're obnoxious and disrespectful behaviors. Possibly insecure as well. I wouldn't deal with it.
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Yes, it's for the best. I just don't like how he does that, and it really makes me feel bad. I mean, he is with me. I am pretty so why does he need to do that? he is insecure, and i guess doing that makes him feel more secure by trying to make me feel insecure, but it's not right. It's a shame, because we really had alot in common. He was on his best behavior the first/second date. Even saying he had to text and not trying to be rude. Then after that he text, text, text away with not a word, and he had the nerve to ask " who are you texting, your boyfriend"?
alphamale Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Get rid of this immature little boy. indeed....
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 indeed.... Yeah, i never knew there were so many insecure men around. He is so materialistic it isn't even funny!
Hkizzle Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Practically from the getgo he announced what actresses were hot. Then next time, was telling me about the " hot" women he dated. Then, he noticed when women bend over, or how they have a nice rack or whatever. Then, its ok for him to text but when i do says " who is that your boyfriend" I don't think these are red flags. I think he's just retarded.
Lauriebell82 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Actually it sounds like he's just a jerk, not to mention narcissistic. Lose him!
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 I don't think these are red flags. I think he's just retarded. And disrespectful! i should have said something right away, but i was in shock and really, i didn't know what to say.
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Actually it sounds like he's just a jerk, not to mention narcissistic. Lose him! Yeah, i know i have to. I am a pretty girl and i have never felt so bad!
Lauriebell82 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 And disrespectful! i should have said something right away, but i was in shock and really, i didn't know what to say. I would have left at what an idiot he was being!!!
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 I would have left at what an idiot he was being!!! You would have walked out? we were in a restaurant and he was texting omg it was unbelievable.
Lauriebell82 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 You would have walked out? we were in a restaurant and he was texting omg it was unbelievable. Oh whoops, I meant to say "laughed at what an idiot he was being." I don't know if I would have walked out but I definately would have ended the date quickly after that display.
UrKillinMeSmalls Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 So is this thread about asking us what our red flags are or is she venting about the dick she went on a date with? Just clarifying
Art_Critic Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Yeah, i know i have to. I am a pretty girl and i have never felt so bad! Why have you not pulled the trigger ?.. with most people showing that kind of disrespect grants them alone time. If he is showing his ass now I'll bet you can't wait to see what he has in store for you after you are in a committed relationship and hooked..
phineas Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Jeez. I've had women pull the trigger after a first date because I wore the wrong color shoes or when they met me at the house I had dirty dishes in the sink.
Lauriebell82 Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 So is this thread about asking us what our red flags are or is she venting about the dick she went on a date with? Just clarifying She is asking if this guy has some possible red flags, combined with some venting about what a jerk he acted like.
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 So is this thread about asking us what our red flags are or is she venting about the dick she went on a date with? Just clarifying Sorry lol guess it turned into a venting session
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Jeez. I've had women pull the trigger after a first date because I wore the wrong color shoes or when they met me at the house I had dirty dishes in the sink. LOL i wouldn't do that, but this really takes the cake! no wonder he doesn't have a gf!
UrKillinMeSmalls Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Some guys may do this intentionally, trying to pull off the bad boy thing. Some guys do it unintentionally because they are fickle fools. Either way though, he's got you spinning a bit because of it.. so.. hmm..
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Some guys may do this intentionally, trying to pull off the bad boy thing. Some guys do it unintentionally because they are fickle fools. Either way though, he's got you spinning a bit because of it.. so.. hmm.. Hmmm?? lol he is not worthy because he disrespected me.
carhill Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 Ah, all that but are you still attracted? If you weren't, he'd be nexted and there would be no rant here That's what the 'hmm' from the prior poster likely meant...
Author enchanted771 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Posted October 7, 2009 Ah, all that but are you still attracted? If you weren't, he'd be nexted and there would be no rant here That's what the 'hmm' from the prior poster likely meant... If i didn't like him i wouldn't be complaining. When he isn't doing that, he is really attentive, generous, etc and we have alot in common. But, i can't deal with it, i feel too bad.
carhill Posted October 7, 2009 Posted October 7, 2009 So, how do you differentiate your like from the disrespect you're feeling? How do the two realities connect? How do you resolve them?
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