georgejungle Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 sick of my posts yet? I apologize. Many know i've posted my disappointment over my Mom not really trying to visit my 1 year old. But i'm just chaulking it up to she's just too busy, stressed out all the time and raising my two teen sisters so she's just busy. She's too busy for her son and grandchild. My other Dilemma is: I have other extended family that I would like my 1 year old to be able to see and have them see her. But they live in the crappiest city where there have been gang shootings recently and it's just not the same city we grew up in. it's changed, it's dirty and just not what it used to be. Yet, they all still live there to be near Granny and Grampa who refuse to ever move. I don't feel comfortable taking my wife and 1 year old there to visit. I know most likely nothing would happen, but it bothers me all the same. PLUS, none of my aunts or uncles who live down there, ever attempt to come up and see US. They harnever, hardly ever call. Should I just not care if they themselves aren't trying to come up to our house and see baby? How do I solve this issue? Should I just come out and say, I refuse to go there because it's a Sh*t hole? I just feel bad not going to see my Grandparents. Maybe I'm just the black sheep and trying to hard. Link to post Share on other sites
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