JL911 Posted October 6, 2009 Posted October 6, 2009 Ok make a long story short there is some history with me and this girl. We knew each other through highschool, she hung out a lot at my house when I'd have parties, but I always had a gf or she always had a bf and we never really went too far because of that. That was 8 years ago... We still talk still remained friends, but I always thought she was cute and kinda my type. I remember one day when I was 18 where I literally hated the fact I had a gf when we met... Shes simple but kinda wild. We like similar things, outdoors, trucks, and we both have a sick similar sense of humor. She has a killer smile and never really dolls herself up too much and I find that very attractive that she looks good being comfortable. Anyways, we are both single now and have been talking for the past week. Just little texts here and there. She wanted me to come out to the bar one night, I did but very late and kind of unexpected. I was out last weekend and she decided to come to where I was and hang out for awhile... Last night I stopped in while she was bartending to hang out and see her for a bit....Very casual fun conversation. Talked to some of the people who are regulars when shes there Monday. Was a good time. Our texts are flirty...I have recently told her that I like hanging around her and would like to continue to see her. We were joking last night about that and I jokingly said to her, "I have made my intentions very clear". She responds to me saying shes not the typical girl...My response, if you were, I probaly would have no interest in you....We both kinda laugh and that was it... I am dying to find where I stand with her....I know she has a bit of a history where she was close to getting married and it just ended...She also had I believe 2 other relationships fall apart after that. She puts up a tough exterior but is not all that tough...I'm just wondering if shes scared to trust me... Ive been dying to break through the wall and just put my arms around her and lay one one her and see where it goes from there, but I dunno if thats right...Im tryin to lay low now...I think ive put it out there enough that I want to be around her and am interested...I dont want to overpersue and come off as desperate this early on... Any thoughts?
boogieboy Posted October 6, 2009 Posted October 6, 2009 You come off as desperate when you imply things and dont make any physical moves. Normally I would say if she wanted you, she would have made a move herself, or at least made things apparent. I say go ahead and make a REAL move, but prepare to ditch her if she doesnt feel the same way. She might not act the same way around you when she finally gets called out on her flirting, and she didnt mean it.
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