All the signs of being interested but then turned out he had a gf,what is that about?

[LB85]

I met this guy who i unfortunately fell too hard for. He lead me on for a year and I foolishly followed thinking several factors were stopping him. We're family friends, brothers are extremely close friends etc..

 

So throughout the year he never asked for my number but he would always initiate contact online and msg me. He knew I liked him and we would always hang out at parties and have great fun.

 

He once asked a common friend how I was doing since he hadn't seen me in ages (only 3 weeks) and then said "Shes a nice girl, I like talking to her but we're just friends''. But this common friend was also rather strange since he once liked me so I decided to ignore it.

 

Then we bumped into each other at a party, we didn't hangout at all throughout but towards the end he asked if he could buy me a drink etc and I said we had to go so maybe some other time. He was slightly drunk anyway, then he grabbed me and kissed me on my cheek in front of my brother. Now I'm ok with that from my friends etc but I barely knew the guy and he did it in front of my brother at this Indian party (where people easily gossip) so I got angry. The next week we saw each other again and he apologised asking how he could make it up to me and I said his apology was enough but he insisted on taking me and my brother for dinner so I said ok. Then, he knew my brother was going out of town and he still asked me to dinner (I was also going by the time he asked me so it never happened).

 

After I got back I tried taking initiative but he didn't respond. Then, just recently I found out he has had a girlfriend for the past 1,5 years! My brother was just telling his brother that he gets in touch with me quite a bit and the guy goes "HUH why is he doing that, he has a girlfriend!" and I was shocked! My friend said she thinks he did like me but wouldnt act upon it otherwise he wouldn't have asked to meet up.

 

I fell so hard for him that he's all I think about and how I can never have him. I don't believe I can find a better guy and I just want to know how to get over it since I wouldn't do anything now that I know! Also did he maybe like me? My own conclusion changes the whole time but in the end I always think that he did like me and really does think I'm a great girl since he always complimented me and once said "Your beautiful, understanding, nice, well taught etc.." (of course I was on 7th heaven by then:p); but I still think he didn't want to risk what he had with his gf since there was no guarantee it would be better with me and because he already loved her.

[Bejita463]

I don't understand why you keep making new threads about this, when you could just discuss it further in the ones that already exist. Are you obsessing over this, and/or aren't getting the answers you want to hear?