reedab Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 (edited) About 4 years ago, during high school, I met this girl online. After becoming good friends we fell in love and had about a 2 year long distance relationship. I have never met her in person due to financial reasons and inability to travel there (about 10 hours apart). We would spend ours on the internet or phone talking to eachother. Eventually things started to become rough because of the distance; it was taking its toll. She loves me, I know that much, but she couldn't handle the distance between us. Coming from that, she decided to break up with me and after about a month we tried it again but then a few months later she broke it up again. Having my heart broken twice I felt like crap, but eventually got over it (this was my senior year) and felt great. So its been about a year and a half since then. I'm a freshman in college and have been very social, dated girls like any other college guy and have kept in touch with my ex. But recently have come over with a sort of loneliness and a multitude of other feelings. Those old feelings i've had with her have started to come back and hit hard. Its like this realization has come to me that she should be the one i want to spend my time with. She is the type of person I want and I know i will never find another person just like her. Now that I have a money due to summer jobs and that I am a little more independent and being of 18 years of age I have more capabilities. But I don't know if she wants me back or will ever want me back. What should I do? Do I tell her how I feel? Do i try to let the feelings die? I have no plans for vacations yet, my thanksgiving is free and she has mentioned about coming up here for a football game one weekend which i highly doubt she would spend the money for. Should I take a trip down to spend some time with her? (Now we are 17 hours apart) Anyone suggestions i would appreciate. Edited October 5, 2009 by reedab
hoping2heal Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 I don't see what it could hurt to meet her in person. I think in all fairness, neither one of you can really know if anything is still there to be rekindled until you do meet, you never know. I don't see you having anything to lose by asking her if she's interested, if she says no then there you have it. You know that you did what you could and the other person just didn't feel the same way. I say take a chance.
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