ashleigh422 Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 So i posted this delemia a few days ago to which my ending statement was.. sounds like a challenge... little did i know.... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t204677/ So.. Ive never seduced anyone.. and this was definatly a seduction.. (I know how to flaunt what I have..) I thought it could be fun to know that he wouldn't gve in to sex and we could just fool around.. and i was okay with that for a few months.. but then things got heated and when we got into foreplay.. and I foung out that he is VERY ENDOUDED.. (to which was a shock becuase he didn't seem like the type that would be packin.. even made jokes about his tiny manhood..) eitherway, I was speachless and wanted him... then one thing to another.. I couldn't resist and neither could he. NOW I feel bad becuase in honestly.. I was trying to see if I could get him to do it.. but really thinking he never would because he is an honest sweet man.. and I really like him and thats why I have kept in contact with him for a year... because we are compatible.. SO.. now after knowin him for almost a year and ony dating him for a month.. HOW CAN I EVER RECOVER? I am not a hoe... ive only been with 4 people.. but we just clicked... IS HE GOING TO THINK IM EASY? Should I forget we did it and go back to not doing it.. (which now at this point could pose a problem becuase I know what hes workin with. haha.) I NEED INSIGHT.. PLEASE!~~
aerogurl87 Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 You had sex after dating for a month and that does not make you a hoe. You'd be a hoe if you had like 10 one night stands in a week, but dating a guy for one month with no sex is fine. I doubt he'll think your easy too, if he does then he has issues.
Kamille Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 You had sex because you wanted to and you enjoyed it. Stop feeling like a hoe and think about what a great time you had - because, believe it or not, that's what he's thinking. Simple as that: "Wow, that was hot". So next time you see him, act confident. Do the exact opposite of whatever prudish ideology is making you think that you have so somehow convince him that you don't ever have a sex drive. Act sexy. Aknowledge you had sex and tell him you had a great time.Take responsibility for your sexuality: which means you were fully present and you chose to have sex out of your own free will. Don't go all wishy washy and insecure on him. Men hate that.
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