davo1224 Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 So a brief synopsis of my life this year: * My mom is an unfiltered mess of personality. I feel like I've had to be her "husband" for a number of years and it's exhausting. She makes a huge stink about me dating men. If I'm ever out late or sleep over somewhere, she'll give me a ****ty attitude and make rude comments the next day. I generally spend 90% of my time with her being extremely pissed off by her comments and actions. * I got out of a relationship near the very end of last year. It just wasn't good. I've never felt like a toy before. It was good in that I gained some self-worth by leaving it and standing up for myself but it was altogether bad. * My last relationship was with a guy who unbeknownst to me had just left his husband for me. Now I knew he had a husband and that he left him and we were now together but I naively thought they were independent actions. When it became clear that I was against this, he went back to him and left me in the dust. I was a little heartbroken but the drama happened when the jilted re-husband took out all his anger on me. So now that I'm back "out there" I'm almost content to just go back to where I used to be. I feel like I'd rather just wait until I can move out (make enough money but have some leftover bills I want to clear out first) but then I'm miserable and lonely heh. I'd rather not go through another doomed relationship. Somewhat more importantly, I'd rather not have to deal with an extremely overbearing mother. All my insecurities and worries are enough without having to aggravate them with someone else being in my business. Advice?
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