Ilovecake Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 and all the guys are the porridge. Guys show interest in dating me all the time but they're always the wrong guys. This one's too married, this one's too wild, this one's not serious enough, this one's too young, this one's too old, this one smells funny...and on and on. Why can't normal unattached guys approach me? Frustrating I tell ya.
Phateless Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 and all the guys are the porridge. Guys show interest in dating me all the time but they're always the wrong guys. This one's too married, this one's too wild, this one's not serious enough, this one's too young, this one's too old, this one smells funny...and on and on. Why can't normal unattached guys approach me? Frustrating I tell ya. Why don't you approach them? That way you can choose who you want to approach instead of waiting for the right guy to fall into your lap.
Author Ilovecake Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 I wouldn't know what to say. Everyone I ever dated I was friends with first. My last boyfriend was the only guy I actually made the first move with but that was easy because he came over to my house with a friend. The weird thing is I have no problem talking to strangers on the street or the train, in line at the store or wherever, I do it all the time. As far as actually getting a date I would feel really weird.
Trialbyfire Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 What kind of utensils do you bring to the table and what are you expecting from your porridge? If the two aren't equivalent, it's less likely to become a meal.
Art_Critic Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 What does a normal unattached man look like in your eyes.. that is the question.. Nothing wrong with having your sights set high but in the case of human beings you cannot find the perfect one and sometimes you have to give on something to get on something else.. Just the way it is.. the other thing to keep in mind is that no matter how much time goes by in a relationship or marriage you will never truly know someone.. Relationships are just a crap shoot and we have to wanna try in order to hone in on what we want/need.
Author Ilovecake Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 I'm not very picky. Here is the thing I'm 39 years old and so far I have had a 24 year old ask me out, a guy I'm friends with who lives on the other side of the country and is going through marital counseling ask me out and a guy who's 5'3, I'm 5'10. Oh yeah and my other friend want to hook me up with his roommate, who lives on his couch. My friend is married and has a child which makes me think what is wrong with this guy to be living on some family’s couch at the age of 37? I just want a guy that is unattached, older that someone that could biologically be my child, maybe at least a little close to my height and at least has his own bedroom. That's not asking a lot.
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