Author caramel c Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 Ladies lets support each other here...I am going to have a pre mid life crisis if I don't continue to receive more input and support. That is a direct request. Thank you.
rainbowsandkittens Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 lmao. well, i'm here. and i'm older.
Kaya Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 So I think we've established a few things here - you fear you're not going to find someone better than your ex (especially because you're older and it took you a long time to find him) - you worry that you won't really get over all this pain until you find someone better and fall in love again - you're trying to be positive, but finding it very hard at the moment I understand these feelings and thoughts.. it's normal. You're still grieving the loss of what you had, and the future looks a little scary. Try to focus on the now.. and don't stress about the future too much - you can't fear the unknown!
rainbowsandkittens Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 and the future is never as bad as we think it's going to be. in fact, it's never as we think it's going to be
Kaya Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 in fact, it's never as we think it's going to be so true
Author caramel c Posted October 6, 2009 Author Posted October 6, 2009 True true...and I know there is nothing I can do about it but just go on.
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