juegosdeseduccion Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 (edited) Me and my GF of 3 years broke up saturday night because she has to work all the time and she has to go to school full time, and we couldn't see each other, now...I don't know how to full...I love her so much I miss her with all my heart...I want her back so bad...she said she needed space to take her of her stuff, and I understand and respect that descion, but this really hurts...what should i do guys? try to get her back? forget about it? she tells me she loves me so much but she dosen't think she can give me what i want right now...but I don't mind that she works...gosh this is awful...please let me have some opinions. oh we are going nc for about 2 days, sunday I brought some of her stuff to her house and wrote her a letter. Quick update, she texted me just know, she broke nc after 2 days, she said have a good day. Edited October 5, 2009 by juegosdeseduccion
harmfulsweetz Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 There's not much to say. She wants space, she wants out. This R isn't what she wants right now, and it hurts right now. It's confusing, especially when you both claim to love each other. I can't answer for her, but it sounds as though the timing is off. It will get easier, keep on with NC, keep occupied, try and meet new people. What she says and what she's doing contradict-if she really loves you, she would find a way to work around it. I have a friend who used to work all the time, she had two jobs, and university, but she still managed to keep her R going. It isn't impossible. Is there other reasons why she may have opted out? Rarely will you find that this is the only reason, maybe for a while she hasn't wanted to find the time to see you. Ask her what she wants, if she wants to break up good and proper-stop texting you, cut contact.
Author juegosdeseduccion Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 There's not much to say. She wants space, she wants out. This R isn't what she wants right now, and it hurts right now. It's confusing, especially when you both claim to love each other. I can't answer for her, but it sounds as though the timing is off. It will get easier, keep on with NC, keep occupied, try and meet new people. What she says and what she's doing contradict-if she really loves you, she would find a way to work around it. I have a friend who used to work all the time, she had two jobs, and university, but she still managed to keep her R going. It isn't impossible. Is there other reasons why she may have opted out? Rarely will you find that this is the only reason, maybe for a while she hasn't wanted to find the time to see you. Ask her what she wants, if she wants to break up good and proper-stop texting you, cut contact. Well she has a really big problem with stress...I mean like she gets overwhelmed very easily, so I can understand why she would try to justify this, she is now very good at managing her time, Im not talking to her until she talks to me.
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