Karma123 Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 (edited) a guy i was seeing deleted me from facebook and i'm really hurt. we have been seeing each other for like 9 months... and he kept asking me out but i always replied with im not ready and then not long ago i strarted to put effort in and we ended up having sex. but he kept saying one minute im around next im not. and he thinks i go on disrespectful at times. i was speaking to someone they said i should txt asking whats happenin wit us and he replied with nothing and the person i was with at the time said he dont care nomore its best i cut it off.. day before he asked me to come out i said no. and then yesterday same happened i said no. and today went on facebook and i wasnt able to find him.. went in my msgs and noticed his still there so i click only for it to ask me to add him as a friend. what you guys think happening here? help pls.. i was ment to go work i didnt go in cuz it upset me like hell. Edited October 5, 2009 by Karma123 not much views.
slowmoveguy Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 I don't know... I wish I could help, your best bet is to go with your feelings, or do what your friend said. Cause, for what I read. I think you two can work things out, but it takes two not just you
Author Karma123 Posted October 5, 2009 Author Posted October 5, 2009 I don't know... I wish I could help, your best bet is to go with your feelings, or do what your friend said. Cause, for what I read. I think you two can work things out, but it takes two not just you thank you. i would like to work things out... but its just his put up his guard now b.cus of the things ive done. but then what if he just wanted me for sex. (baring in mind it took me 8months to give it to him)
Lishy Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 He has had enough of your games, and to be honest ... I dont blame him! If you want him then be with him and make the effort and if not let him go, you cant pick someone up and drop them like that Kudos to him I say
harmfulsweetz Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 Maybe because he thought you weren't into him, I mean, you kept saying no to meeting him, what's he supposed to think? Sounds like he's given you plenty of time to change, and you haven't. He's sick of waiting for you to be ready, to put the effort in, and make your mind up, what's the point really? He deleted you because he wants out, he wants to have no contact with you. Leave it. If you do think you want to put in the effort, then try and message him, meet him etc. If not, stop before you try to contact him.
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