Sbrizio Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 More than 3 months after the break-up, and more or less 2 mths of continuous NC... i'm striving to find some peace. I can only see around me people in couples living (or so it seems) happily their stories. I've been going out with a couple of girls, and i'm pretty much discouraged because i can't feel anything at all - the least interest, the least amusement. They're not boring, but they're simply no match with my ex. There's no spark in my heart, nor in my head. My ex was incredible. Since our first date, we both had the sensation we could be each-other soulmates. I think alot about her, and i wonder if i'll ever been able to find someone as her. I feel i'm stuck in a place where every day is a battle to fight back memories and sadness, a place where there is no peace. I wonder how long one can keep torturing himself in the memory of something lost, and if i will be able to find back the happiness of the past days. As much as i seek some rest from this daily routine of memories, i fear that i might be able, one day, to content myself with the calm numbness of a life without sparks of love, but without pain as well. I'm a bit lost...
coliflower Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 Hi sorry to hear you are feeling down but i know how you feel. Its been 4 months now since my relationship ended and im still finding it really hard although it really helps reading other peoples advice and just knowing that one day it will get better. Just hang in there x
adamt Posted October 5, 2009 Posted October 5, 2009 It sounds like it is too early for you to start dating again, do it too early and you could miss out on them when you are ready. I would not worry about having to date or find someone so soon. Only do it when you feel ready. At the moment just focus on yourself and doing stuff you enjoy and making you feel better. The dating will follow that naturally. Just be selfish without messing other people about.
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