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its been 2 going on 3 weeks since i haven't talked to my ex. at first everything was great and i had no problem not talking to her. ive been going out with friends and doing everything possible to keep busy. but i still no matter what's going on i still think about her even if i'm with my friends. every so often i start crying. i keep dreaming about her and when i go somewhere where we have been before, in my mind i start to see us there like a movie playing in my head and it makes me smile but then brings me down.

 

she hasn't tried contacting me or anything. i feel like she just forgot about me. i know she hates me now from what i read on myspace. i just want her back and this no contact thing is just making me miss her more, its not helping me move on at all. i think everything through and ask myself all the time if i want her back and the answer is always yes. any advice?

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Hey, I know how you feel, but I'm on week five. At worst I live on Hawaii in a small town. Not much space between us on this island and we've done everything. But, it's beyond the past. You gotta think about the future, that love is gone and brother it's gonna fade away one day. All these feelings will pass and tomorrow isn't gonna be as gray. But, you seem like a good guy. Stay strong, it's all apart of maturing

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All I can say is hang in there.. maybe you'll start to feel differently in a couple of days/weeks.

 

I'm on 2 weeks of no contact, and I'm in the same boat, just feel like I'm missing him more and more, but that is how it goes I suppose. The last email he sent ended with "I miss you" and it's taking all my will power to not reply to say "I miss you too" - but then I think, what good will that do?! If he misses me that much, then why is he not with me?

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i am feeling exactly the same way and i wish to know the answer too. in the meantime, we just need to keep walking on...

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