moving in with him

[FEMIa]

A friend of mine introduce me to this guy A few months ago, the guy confessed his feelings for me, and I realized I felt the same way about him. I had thought about him a few times before but never gave it much thought because I didn't think it'd be possible, him being on the other side of the state (CA). For the last 2 to three months, we've been talking on the phone every single day at least 2 or 3 times a day... I've never been so expressive about my feelings with anyone before. I truly gave it my all. It's like we've become part of each others' lives even without having met each other. well i finaly met him we have a lot in common he said he love me very much but the thing is he want me to move in with him because i live on the other side of the state (MD) but i do not know what to do i need help. please

[ReturnToSender]

You meet in person once and he wants you to come move in with him? That sounds very off. Thats moving incredibly fast.

 

My ex lived in another country when we first started dating...and we dated for nearly a year before I moved closer to him...and even then we werent living together...it just allowed us to be able to see each other even more before we moved in together another year later.

 

Another example..I once dated a guy that lived a 6 hour drive from me. Sometimes hed drive to see me, or me to him, or wed meet halfway. Making the effort to see each other is the solution....moving in with him is just his way of making you more convenient...both in distance and financially too since Im sure hes not offering you to stay with him rent free...

 

Anyway...if its that important to him, he should be thinking of ways to move to where you are..not in with you..getting his own place in your city. That how I figure it.

[FEMIa]

[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]Dear people,[/FONT][/sIZE]

[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]I started dating a man and we have an amazing connection. We have endless and effortless conversations about the myriad interests we share, he's hilarious (and he thinks I am too), we share the same values in life, I feel like I can be 100% myself with him. He has everything a woman would want in life.[/FONT][/sIZE]

[FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Here's the problem. I'm 21. He's 33. I know he's not old enough to really be my father, but he's up there. I had NEVER considered or imagined I would be drawn to someone so much older. But now that I am, I am so torn. Do I turn away what seems to be my perfect match because of the age gap? Let me be clear, I'm not drawn to him because he "fathers me."It's really a case of two kindred spirits being separated by a lot of numerical years. If I follow what feels right, do you think am setting myself up for future failure? Do you think this is a terrible idea? Please help! [/sIZE][/FONT]

[EsmerKiss7]

A friend of mine introduce me to this guy A few months ago, the guy confessed his feelings for me, and I realized I felt the same way about him. I had thought about him a few times before but never gave it much thought because I didn't think it'd be possible, him being on the other side of the state (CA). For the last 2 to three months, we've been talking on the phone every single day at least 2 or 3 times a day... I've never been so expressive about my feelings with anyone before. I truly gave it my all. It's like we've become part of each others' lives even without having met each other. well i finaly met him we have a lot in common he said he love me very much but the thing is he want me to move in with him because i live on the other side of the state (MD) but i do not know what to do i need help. please

 

 

if your gunna move in awith some one make sure you understand whats coming out of it cuz in two weeks you two can sense the hostility between each other people change after trust me my brothers been married for 5 years and his wife always changeabout the housing arrange ments but we all make our own path