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Friendzone (long, sorry!)

Dubois

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So a month or two ago I was asking about getting to first base with this guy and the mixed messages I was getting. About a month ago I just flat out asked if we were dating or just friends.

 

I got this long response where he said that his mind wouldn't make the right connections to me because he likes to keep his work and his personal life separate and he works in the same industry as my dad and has met him so I seem to have been filed under his work and basically he'd still like to keep me around if I was happy with that.

 

I said I wasn't interested in half a person and went to move on. He came back and said if we were just friends it would be more like 75% and not half. So since we had plans for that weekend I went out with him again. And I've seen him every weekend since then, spending all day Saturday with him or going to dinner and a movie with him Saturday night.

 

Friends works just fine for me, he's happy to do anything I want to do and he's someone to hang out with but the guys at my work say there's no way we're just friends, even though the mixed signals are gone. Do you all think it's possible for just friends between two people who started out as dates?

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aerogurl87 Established Member

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He came back and said if we were just friends it would be more like 75% and not half.

 

I'm sorry but what is the other 25%? How can you be 75% friends? If I were you I'd tell him, I want it all or nothing at all, meaning either we're strictly friends who hang out every now and then or we're dating and you get to see me weekly, go out on dates with me, etc.

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When you know you WANT to be more than friends, you just prolong the torture that will build up after a while. One day you will decide that you want all or nothing, so end it now. He doesnt like you that way, he never will. he just tells you what you want to hear so he has someone to hang with when the girl he really wants blows him off. if you keep focused on this guy, someone you might really like could pass you by.

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